Is it normal to have performance anxiety in bed?

When ever I start thinking about it, I just go soft and it gets awkward. How do I avoid this?

Is It Normal?
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  • Sometimes it's hard not to think about it.Had and still have my experiences with performance anxiety.I have tried pills and sometimes they work sometimes they don't.A Blow job works for me most of the time.It gets me up.There are other sexual things couples can do that don't involve penetration,like massages, oral sex, sex toys.This might help you relax.

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  • This is a common problem for men lol Best way to get over it is find a girl who makes you feel comfortable and doesn't mind if you can't get it up right away. If you're not into having girlfriends and you just like to sleep around, then it could be a bigger issue. Them bitches don't like to wait.

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  • Before you start doing anything accept the fact that you may not perform well. That way you won't be anxious :) After that.. Be The MAN! Set your state of mind! Be on top, control everything, breathe deeply. GL

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  • Don't think about it

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