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Generally sexual thoughts based on younger girls just hitting puberty. I would never do such a thing, but is it wierd to have the thought?
I'm sure plenty of people have pedophillic fantasies (men and women) - the imagination is a pretty safe space to 'play' with ideas, especially taboo ones.
So yes, I wouldn't worry. Just keep them to yourself.
It should only be of concern if you become preoccupied with the fantasies or the idea of acting them out.
The last time I've said that I have pedophillic fantasies here on IIN I've been thumbed down. Don't know if it's because I'm female. It's just a fantasy.
It's because people can't control their knee-jerk response to pedophilia.
If you were fantasising about having sex with your pet dog, you wouldn't get the same thumbs down.
I would have thought that people would be more tolerant of a female having some fantasy than a man having it.
Actually I think you're right - they are more tolerant.
Society in general is more tolerant of female pedophiles - including those who molest children (as long as violence isn't used).
I fantasized that my hot guidance councilor would ask me if I would like to see her naked she would say promise not to tell anyone then show her naked body to my 10 year old self. That would've been so hot. That wouldn't have been right, though. If she touched me and I came that would've been even hotter. I would feel so dirty. She liked me as a 10 year old. But yah, no normal 30 year old thinks 10 year old boys are hot, her included When I was 15 I tried to get whole blocks of adults to be attracted to me but none of them had the slightest interest..
Sexual desires often defy reason, and even ones own moral standards. I believe that having sexual fantasies about actions that would be highly immoral and illegal is not something to feel guilt or to beat yourself up over. Who HASNT had sexual fantasies that, if acted on, would have moral, social, or legal ramifications! BUT, you have to be extremely mindful that it can never be acted on. If someone is unstable or loses touch with reality for the sake of fantasizing, THEN, my friend, there is a problem. Many people think that they have to act on every urge. That's what makes fantasizing dangerous. Just think with the right head....
This is a problem for how evolved we are. That feeling is hard wired into our brains. as a male you looked for the fertile young female that would be best to mate with. Back when human brains needed to do this, we probably mated at 12ish, or soon after puberty. Remember humans only lived until they were 30 or so then.
I'm talking caveman type ages, not 1972. :)
So now we don't need to mate right away to keep species alive, but we still get puberty at approx same ages. Can you imagine how smart children/young adults would be if puberty didn't start until you were 25, and ready to marry/have family? Would make Highschool & middle school a lot different. College too for that matter.
Is it normal that some of us have fantasies about hunting down and killing pedophiles in cold blood?