Is it normal to have no social life?

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okay! so, i don't really have any close friends I could hang out and chill... well maybe one or two but I would have to call them to see what's going on and hang out but then I feel left out. some old classmates sometimes delete me from their facebook, msn etc. so, not a big deal for me but still makes me wonder why they don't like me. sometimes I worry that me not having a social life would be very negative when it comes to girlfriend relationships :/ what should i DO?

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  • missindependent#1
    10 years ago | pl

    don worry they don deserve ya jus be yourself. you will get an understanding girlfriend

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  • zchristian
    13 years ago | pl

    i have it easy getting friends but i have it hard by meeting some people mostly if they dont talk to me i dont talk to them

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  • juatbehonestndirty
    13 years ago | pl

    i dont have friends not because i cant get them but because i dont trust them. being stabbed in the back by people oyu care for is hard and its been done too many times family is what counts nothing more

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  • styleofthelivingdead
    14 years ago | pl

    Don't worry about it too much, people are fickle creatures. Old classmates deleting you from myspace doesn't mean that they don't like you, simply that they weren't close enough with you to care. I delete people I don't keep in contact with anymore, it is a perfectly normal thing to do. I'm sure you will have some close friends in the future, but when you get into a relationship everything pretty much goes the opposite way if it is a serious relationship. When I started dating my fiance I basically gave up all of my close friendships. It wasn't that I didn't care about they people anymore, I simply found someone I cared about more and I didn't have time for them anymore.

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  • sidknee
    14 years ago | pl

    Google autism, take it and this may help you understand your weak areas.

    http://www.wired.com/wired/archive/9.12/aqtest.html

    I'm 34 point-wise. I'm not 35 or more but in-between above average and autistic. It helps to make sense of a lot of things. Are you also smarter than most people in terms of overall intelligence?

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  • WayOutThere
    14 years ago | pl

    Get a social life.

    Friendships often develop from common activities, so take up some hobbies, join some clubs, participate in group activities, and meet new people in the process. As you're already on Facebook, you can use that to find interesting events to go to in your area.

    If old classmates delete you from Facebook, ask them why. Tell them you want an honest and critical answer, that you won't be offended. This may provide some clues if you are doing something wrong.

    Yes, having good social skills are important, when it comes to finding a girlfriend.

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