Okay. well at 20, you haven't collected too many marks of pride.
Let's use Me for examples, I just woke up so it is easier than researching other heroes. Let's compare me at twenty and compare it to Me now. One day you'll be the same(but different):
- I'm 28, but at twenty I could NOT say my Girlfriend is hot... I doubt I had one. At twenty I had not been to every Canadian Province and 5 countries; but I have now. At twenty I hadn't lived and worked on a contract for a Prince, in Canada at that! At twenty, I had barely accomplished actually passing and graduating Highschool: it was this year I had just started my pilots license and couldn't fathom that I would ever afford the next lesson! but I did. I can Now say (sometime in my 28th year) I am a University Grad, (sorta, I'm missing one class this January)
I can say that now with more experiences, it helps me figure out that sense of self.
It comes with time, time always helps; it is really great what can be accomplished and discovered with time - So just keep doing what you are doing. adjust, explore and be; everyone else will know who you are, and as you become more alive - friends and family and yourself will help you find out who you are.
Is it normal to have no sense of self?
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Okay. well at 20, you haven't collected too many marks of pride.
Let's use Me for examples, I just woke up so it is easier than researching other heroes. Let's compare me at twenty and compare it to Me now. One day you'll be the same(but different):
- I'm 28, but at twenty I could NOT say my Girlfriend is hot... I doubt I had one. At twenty I had not been to every Canadian Province and 5 countries; but I have now. At twenty I hadn't lived and worked on a contract for a Prince, in Canada at that! At twenty, I had barely accomplished actually passing and graduating Highschool: it was this year I had just started my pilots license and couldn't fathom that I would ever afford the next lesson! but I did. I can Now say (sometime in my 28th year) I am a University Grad, (sorta, I'm missing one class this January)
I can say that now with more experiences, it helps me figure out that sense of self.
It comes with time, time always helps; it is really great what can be accomplished and discovered with time - So just keep doing what you are doing. adjust, explore and be; everyone else will know who you are, and as you become more alive - friends and family and yourself will help you find out who you are.
Hope it Helps!
Dirk.