Have you tried to get close - for example doing things, being personable to build a relationship with one or a few of these many friends (not as a group)? If not maybe start there - people behave differently as individuals than as a group.
Also when you are giving help - have you used this opportunity to assert yourself by sharing how you feel (used) and what you'd like to see different?
I guess I'm saying its worth trying to cultivate better relationships among those you have - which you say are many. But otherwise I do think you could curtail being used for car & money and get out to make new friends by pursuing some of your interests.
Is it normal to have no real friends??
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Have you tried to get close - for example doing things, being personable to build a relationship with one or a few of these many friends (not as a group)? If not maybe start there - people behave differently as individuals than as a group.
Also when you are giving help - have you used this opportunity to assert yourself by sharing how you feel (used) and what you'd like to see different?
I guess I'm saying its worth trying to cultivate better relationships among those you have - which you say are many. But otherwise I do think you could curtail being used for car & money and get out to make new friends by pursuing some of your interests.