Take your daaaaamn time. Don't feel pressured! Experiment! I'm not saying go out and sleep with every person of any gender and orientation you see, but if you find yourself having feelings for a man, woman, whatever - that's totally cool.
You seem to be worrying over this excessively - don't. Breathe, relax. Take your time, nobody's rushing you to figure this out. Plus. Many people have very fluid sexualities - not the case with me, personally, so I can't expand on that but yeah.
Don't feel like you have to force yourself into a label. You don't HAVE to say, "I'm straight, I'm gay, I'm bi, I'm ace, etc. etc.". I consider myself asexual, but at the same time i still romantically like any gender (which somehow people are confused about, not sure why?) and then they'll say, "Ohhh, so you're ____!" And I'm like, bitch, no, I just happen to like men and women, and whatever else in between. So if you're not quite ready or comfortable fitting into something, that's totally cool.
You "sound" straight to me but given then you're at least considering this, you might just be curious, so don't worry about it. I'm not religious so it's probably not in my place, but I'd say not to let your religion "suffocate" you. Love you for who you are.
Is it normal to have no idea what your orienation is at age 22?
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Take your daaaaamn time. Don't feel pressured! Experiment! I'm not saying go out and sleep with every person of any gender and orientation you see, but if you find yourself having feelings for a man, woman, whatever - that's totally cool.
You seem to be worrying over this excessively - don't. Breathe, relax. Take your time, nobody's rushing you to figure this out. Plus. Many people have very fluid sexualities - not the case with me, personally, so I can't expand on that but yeah.
Don't feel like you have to force yourself into a label. You don't HAVE to say, "I'm straight, I'm gay, I'm bi, I'm ace, etc. etc.". I consider myself asexual, but at the same time i still romantically like any gender (which somehow people are confused about, not sure why?) and then they'll say, "Ohhh, so you're ____!" And I'm like, bitch, no, I just happen to like men and women, and whatever else in between. So if you're not quite ready or comfortable fitting into something, that's totally cool.
You "sound" straight to me but given then you're at least considering this, you might just be curious, so don't worry about it. I'm not religious so it's probably not in my place, but I'd say not to let your religion "suffocate" you. Love you for who you are.