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is it normal to have never kissed anyone cause i am 19 and i have never kissed anyone dated anyone had sex or even been asked out by a girl before and i have never met anyone who is into me at all is it normal or am i just some freak of nature
Im 18 and a girl and ive never been kissed or had a boyfriend or even gone out on a date and im a model and most people tell me im nice and normal so, so are you :) x
Girls usually don't ask guys out... You need to do the asking and then you will probably get results.
Oh, and kll019.
Having sex just to see what it's like isn't the best idea.
Since you don't know what it's like, you also don't know how much you could possibly regret it later.
Besides, it's better if you actually mean it. (:
HEY GUYS.
Don't be scared of girls. If you like someone, ask her on a date. If she says no, it's totally not a big deal. She's not going to hate you or act really awkward (at least I don't; I forget about it really quickly), and then you can't ask yourself anymore, "what if I had asked?"
and if she says yes,
then AWESOME! You can hang out and you'll end up kissing her sometime if it works out all right.
K dis is a q..... Wat if the girl I lik likes sum1 else. Do i still go up n tell her that u lik her?
Don't feel bad. My situation is pretty similar to your's. I'm also 19 and I've never had my first kiss nor have I had sex or done anything sexual. It's not like I haven't had the opportunity. Plenty of guys have asked me out. Its just guys that I'm not interested in being intimate with. But now that I'm 19, I'm anxious to have my first kiss and have sex. Currently, I'm talking to this guy who's not even really my type, and I think he may only want to have sex with me. But since I want to see what its like, I might go for it. And I know it goes against everything that I usually believe in, but I just want to experience kissing and how it feels to make out with someone.
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I'm in the exact same position, but i'm 21... and i don't think my life will change any time soon
Shit, I'm two years older than you and I'm more or less the same. I've been on a few dates unlike you I just never found the right girl to be kissing and the like.
Sometimes it just isn't easy finding that right girl.
i think its normal, but you have to work out whatever it is thats stopping you before you get alot older and then it will just be harder. i took my boyfriend of 3yrs virginity when he was 20 (like 2 days b4 his 21 bday) i didnt know he was a virgin til a lil while later he told me. and i thought it was the sweetest most adorable thing ever. and i felt special that he felt more for me then any other girlfriend b4 me. but u do have to try and be if not confident, at least out-going. even people who have been dating and doing everything else get nervous of being shot down. u may be rejected, but u might not. you have to take risks sometimes to get good things in life. but dont rush into anything either. your not weird. im super confident, and even have suffered from severe vanity at times. lol but i still find myself shy around certain ppl. lol i completely ignore certain boys who i find extremely attractive. i dont speak and avoid eye contact lol because if they speak to me i blush... which embarrasses me even more! then i giggle and get super silly.
well what ever is going on it has to do with you and your attitude against thing you need to be confident get some balls nad ask a girl out its not that hard to get a date...girls arnt extreamly into looks so dont worry about that either...hte bottom line is you need to get out there and make thigs happen for your self you cant just sit there and expect life to come to you. you will jsut end up lonley
My friend is 19 and she has never been kissed or had a bf. I don't think it's something that has to be rushed into. It'll happen one day and when it does you'll probably be grateful you didn't bang some random when you were 15.
it is normal - it took me till 18. but first you'll find that all 3 of those things tend to come at once, or in close succession. and second, don't wait for the girls to ask you out, take the initiative, i know it's cliche but girls love it if you ask them, i know it may get awkward if you're shot down, but if you like someone work out if the risk is worth it, or make a resolution that the next nice, available, attainable girl you meet, you will ask out.
sounds quite normal to me, you need to pluck up some courage and talk to some girls! we really arent that bad you know! :D
i couldnt believe this... it means u not trust anyone in love matter. but its not a big deal...
Umm... So u know u have to ask girls out right? They don't just come up to u and ask u out... But yea I know what u mean. A first kiss is special, don't just do it with someone u don't like all that much just to get it over with. Unless u honestly don't care, then yea, go ahead. My advice? Read up on google or something about getting a gf and such if u feel like u can't.. Then just start practicing! And try to not come off as needy or they won't like u. I learned this the hard way. Also, I'm guessing u don't have a lot of confidence when it comes to girls... Girls LOVE confidence, so just fake it. But even if u stumble over ur words and such, most girls think it's actually cute! Go figure. Best of luck!
Yo dude I'm in the exact same boat. I'm the same age and the only time I've gone out with a girl was prom as friends. How do you know no girl is into you? Do all of the girls you find attractive know you're into them? I would say not. Don't let it worry you too much. You'll find someone eventually. I just hope I'm right, for both of our sakes.