Is it normal to have never kissed a girl/ had sex and i'm in college?

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So I'm now an 18 year old Freshman going into my spring semester and I have yet to do anything with a girl. It's on my mind all the time as something I have yet to accomplish; and I feel that if I were to, my life would basically be complete for the time being and everything would be just peachy. Sometimes its just me being blind and not being able to take a hint, and I will think back later and say to myself "wow, i just totally dropped the ball, it was so obvious". Its not that I'm afraid of girls, I just have no idea how to talk to them and have them take a liking to me and be interested in me. Some girls do find me to be likeable, and will show back that they have an interest in me, and I can strike up a conversation, make her laugh, have a good time and all, but usually can't take it farther than that because I'm afraid of failure, rejection, awkwardness afterwards, what to do next etc. My friends tell me the time will just come and it will happen for me, just like for them, but its been too long.

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  • Pisslan616
    12 years ago

    I am pretty much the same.

    I don't hide the fact that I have never had a girlfriend and am still a virgin but I don't shout about it either.

    It just came up in conversation one day and some of my housemates were sorta surprised. Which means they must have assumed that I'm not completely hopeless with girls. I suppose that's encouraging... I think.

    Although I don't really care that much about losing my virginity I would quite like to be in some kind if relationship. I try not to let it get me down but If I'm honest it does sometimes.

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  • gashlover
    9 years ago

    just get a hooker

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  • Avant-Garde
    9 years ago

    I think it's normal. You should get a book on body language. http://www.amazon.com/gp/aw/d/1451624352/ref=redir_mdp_mobile?pc_redir=T1

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  • zackattack
    11 years ago

    Well I'm pretty much the same. I know one or two guys like us. There are plenty of IIN about this. So I guess your relatively normal. Me Personally I've come to the conclusion that I have too high of standards. It's not that I'm only willing to do stuff with the hottest looking girl, but I couldn't get the reasonably cute girl who might give out. Try for the girl most guys overlook cuz she's a prude.

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  • Samson
    12 years ago

    Why the fuck do people even ask its not weird to be a virgin. Is it weird that you did not take advantage of the local mattress actress and lost your virginity no

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