I'm 23, female, so here's my 2 cents. Don't worry about it. Loosen up an get some confidence for who you are. Do you have a favorite hobby? Go find people who like the same. Feel like you could do more for appearances? Go get a haircut, or chat up a guy (or woman) working in a department store you like, get him to help you pick some stuff out. DON'T WORRY ABOUT COMPARING EVERYONE ELSE'S LIFE TO YOURS. I was the awkward chick in high school who was kinda nerdy and kinda shy, pretty average in appearances but I really needed peoples' approval. So what did I do? I lost my virginity at 15. Didn't change a damn thing. Couple years later I decided to hell with them all, started dressing how I wanted, eating what I wanted (within healthy reason), and going where I wanted (again, within safe reason). I got confident and happy with myself. And my friends supported that.
So I guess I'm trying to tell you to say to hell with how they live, do what makes YOU happy and don't try to fit yourself into someone else's standards.
I dont find that many woman at the gun range or a the fishing lake. some people think im wierd becouse of that.
I do live the way I wan to live but its not helping my situation.
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I'm 23, female, so here's my 2 cents. Don't worry about it. Loosen up an get some confidence for who you are. Do you have a favorite hobby? Go find people who like the same. Feel like you could do more for appearances? Go get a haircut, or chat up a guy (or woman) working in a department store you like, get him to help you pick some stuff out. DON'T WORRY ABOUT COMPARING EVERYONE ELSE'S LIFE TO YOURS. I was the awkward chick in high school who was kinda nerdy and kinda shy, pretty average in appearances but I really needed peoples' approval. So what did I do? I lost my virginity at 15. Didn't change a damn thing. Couple years later I decided to hell with them all, started dressing how I wanted, eating what I wanted (within healthy reason), and going where I wanted (again, within safe reason). I got confident and happy with myself. And my friends supported that.
So I guess I'm trying to tell you to say to hell with how they live, do what makes YOU happy and don't try to fit yourself into someone else's standards.
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I dont find that many woman at the gun range or a the fishing lake. some people think im wierd becouse of that.
I do live the way I wan to live but its not helping my situation.