Is it normal to have never had a girlfriend by 17?

I have never been in a relationship. There are girls I like, but they never really seem to notice me. Is it weird to never have had a girlfriend by 17? I've also never kissed a girl yet. :( thanks is it normal community.

Is It Normal?
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  • I had a girlfriend when I was in the third grade. But after that, I was sort of a flop with chicks, like the fellow in "LOVE POTION NUMBER NINE". I finally did meet a nice girl when I was 28. She was nine years younger than me and practically raped me. A couple years later we wed and have been fairly happy ever since, tho life has throwed us a lot of ups and downs. Good luck to you, pal.

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  • Yes normal

    Try going for a ugly girl & start there

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  • I'm a girl and I just turned 22 and iv never been kissed and I'm too shy to say yes to dates. I have had crushes but I just want to find someone who is like me. Anyway I think it's normal and I think you will find someone that's for you soon enough hopefully sooner then me, good luck!

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  • i'm in the exact sam situation, 17 virgin and never kissed... sucks

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  • don't go for the hot ones, they're bitches. Ugly ones have personality to make up for not being hot, and they're more likely to accept cause they're desperate for the dick. And once you're with them, you'll fuck so much it doesn't matter if they're ugly. A hole is a hole.

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  • I'm in the same position , but I'm a girl :) .. I think it's normal

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  • I thinks its normal, i'm going be 17 in a couple of days, and i never had a boyfriend and only kissed one time(but i don't count that). It sucks :( but yeah, i think its normal.

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  • When people say i'm waiting for the right one I cringe at how people think losing their virginity is amazing when for most it is a complete farce that is almost always awkward :/

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  • i'm 18, gonna be 19 pretty soon, i've never had a girlfriend, and never kissed sum1.......
    wanna wait for the right one, with whom i'll be spending the rest of my life with....

    is This Normal???

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  • it all varies with people. my exboyfriend was almost 18 when we started going out and i was his first girlfriend. there's nothing wrong with it. wait for the person who likes you as much as you like them.

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  • Well why don't they notice you? Make them notice you. Talk to them. Make them laugh. Do what ever it takes to make your self feel confident. You'll have more oppurtunities when you go to college.

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  • Just put yourself out there :) no regrets
    You never know what could happen

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  • Just be loud(metaphorically) in school

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  • yeah, I guess. same here. i'm practically invisible.

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  • Same here unfortunately. :( it sucks but I hope things will turn around soon

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