You are going after the wrong girls. The type of girls who just date to date and have fun, and keep things interesting. And once the honey moon phase is over, they kick you to the curb.
Or you are rushing into relationships with people that you shouldn't be. You just jump right into the water immediately, instead of testing the waters by getting to know them as friends first. Which is 100% of the reason why most relationships fail. People start dating each other, more or less the day they meet them. Instead of getting to know each other's true selves as friends. And not basing your desire for them off of the fact that they are showing you all of this love and affection.
My first/only serious relationship lasted a year, and we rushed into things way too fast. Only to realize at the end, that I hated everything about her, and I now have a long list of deal breakers. But when I first met her, she immediately expressed interest in me, and gave me love, care, and attention. And at the end, I realized that those were the only things I even liked about her.
Is it normal to have never had a decent length relationship?
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You are going after the wrong girls. The type of girls who just date to date and have fun, and keep things interesting. And once the honey moon phase is over, they kick you to the curb.
Or you are rushing into relationships with people that you shouldn't be. You just jump right into the water immediately, instead of testing the waters by getting to know them as friends first. Which is 100% of the reason why most relationships fail. People start dating each other, more or less the day they meet them. Instead of getting to know each other's true selves as friends. And not basing your desire for them off of the fact that they are showing you all of this love and affection.
My first/only serious relationship lasted a year, and we rushed into things way too fast. Only to realize at the end, that I hated everything about her, and I now have a long list of deal breakers. But when I first met her, she immediately expressed interest in me, and gave me love, care, and attention. And at the end, I realized that those were the only things I even liked about her.