Identity / expression is different to gender. How you feel about gender roles in society don't necessarily determine your gender. In other words, being androgynous doesn't mean you have more than one gender, defying gender roles doesn't create a new gender, there are not set ways for either gender to be when it comes to identity and/or expression.
Don't listen to the people teaching you about 'fluid genders' and non-binary genders', they mean well but this is false information.
Instead, focus on how your mind reacts to your body, as that is what determines your gender. Do you experience gender dysphoria?
It's okay to be confused, this shit is confusing, but please don't let the internet confuse you even more.
Overall how do you feel about your body? Do you feel that it should be more like the opposite sex?
You said that this feeling disappears sometimes, is there anything you can think of that might trigger these feelings either coming or going? Whether that be looking at yourself in the mirror, being referred to as your biological sex, gender stereotypes etc.
It comes and goes unexpectedly. When it does,I prefer not to look myself in the mirror. Or before, I change clothes(now what I do is just wear a unisex clothing so whatever gender comes off it won't give me uncomfortable feelings). Sometimes I like being referred as 'she'. But at times I'm not fine with it,and liked having that 'he' pronoun. Then at other times I don't want to be referred as any gender at all,or I want to be both. All of these can happen in a day,unexpectedly.
Is it normal to have multiple genders?
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Identity / expression is different to gender. How you feel about gender roles in society don't necessarily determine your gender. In other words, being androgynous doesn't mean you have more than one gender, defying gender roles doesn't create a new gender, there are not set ways for either gender to be when it comes to identity and/or expression.
Don't listen to the people teaching you about 'fluid genders' and non-binary genders', they mean well but this is false information.
Instead, focus on how your mind reacts to your body, as that is what determines your gender. Do you experience gender dysphoria?
It's okay to be confused, this shit is confusing, but please don't let the internet confuse you even more.
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Gender dysphoria?Uhm..yeah I do,at moment.But not all the time.I experience it right now while typing,actually.Though I know it will disappear later.
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Overall how do you feel about your body? Do you feel that it should be more like the opposite sex?
You said that this feeling disappears sometimes, is there anything you can think of that might trigger these feelings either coming or going? Whether that be looking at yourself in the mirror, being referred to as your biological sex, gender stereotypes etc.
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It comes and goes unexpectedly. When it does,I prefer not to look myself in the mirror. Or before, I change clothes(now what I do is just wear a unisex clothing so whatever gender comes off it won't give me uncomfortable feelings). Sometimes I like being referred as 'she'. But at times I'm not fine with it,and liked having that 'he' pronoun. Then at other times I don't want to be referred as any gender at all,or I want to be both. All of these can happen in a day,unexpectedly.
Spot on.