No, it's crazy and nonsensical. People create a lot of bullshit such as gender fluidity. You can't change your gender, remember, there are only two and you get one without the possibility to choose. There are very rare exceptions in which malfunctions occur, but that's out of the discussion. Everybody has moments in life when they feel tougher, or more sensitive, which results into different attitudes. It is not feminine to be a sensitive male and it is not masculine to be a tough female. Also many people do this for attention or for the fact that they can't interact easily with others (e.g. a male may find it hard to talk to females so he may have a "gay-phase" just because he finds it easier to talk to other males or he may even pretend he's a female to interact easier). If you change your gender everyday because you change your mood it means that you are very unstable and mentally unbalanced. Everybody got mood swings. "Changing" your gender means that you refuse to adapt and solve your daily problems and this leads to an incapacity to have a normal life in which you have to deal with a lot more shit than mood swings (threat, injustice, crimes, even war in some areas). If you want a family, you can't pretend the next day that you are single just because you feel you want that. If you want to run a business, you can't stop in the middle saying you feel like you want to be free and happy. If you keep hiding from your problems you will be unable to achieve anything serious in your life. Before thinking about changing your gender, ask yourself if this is not just an escape, if it is just to comfort you mentally or not, if it is to avoid bullying or attacks. If there is a cause in the external environment that leads to this, then you know it's a wrong move and you avoid dealing with the world. You can't spend your life in a crystal ball, get used to it. My advice: Stick to your natural gender and forget the shit people do. And don't go to get brain therapy, that's a sign of your incapacity to solve your problems. Do that yourself.
I know how to cope with problems and at this moment I seem fine with my life,having good financial status and being contented with the things I achieve. And I got no problems switching genders everyday,for I'm used to it and at least I can make my parents wishes come true: For mom to have a graceful daughter and for dad to have a son he can teach everything he knew(without them knowing I literally switch genders of course),it's just that when I see other people sticking with their biological genders I feel out of place most of the time and giving myself a 'label' is hard. For the mental state,I am very stable, and had personality development lessons from school which I learned a lot from. :)
You shouldn't switch just because your parents want you to or because they like it. I don't know, it sounds crazy. To me, this thing with gender changing or inventing more genders is a complete madness. You are only what nature says you are. Your genitals define your gender. It's up to you anyway. I would never do that if I were you. My mum always wanted a girl and she kept living in her world trying to get me to act more feminine. It never worked and she has to cope with this. I will always be what my chromosomes say I am. A man.
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No, it's crazy and nonsensical. People create a lot of bullshit such as gender fluidity. You can't change your gender, remember, there are only two and you get one without the possibility to choose. There are very rare exceptions in which malfunctions occur, but that's out of the discussion. Everybody has moments in life when they feel tougher, or more sensitive, which results into different attitudes. It is not feminine to be a sensitive male and it is not masculine to be a tough female. Also many people do this for attention or for the fact that they can't interact easily with others (e.g. a male may find it hard to talk to females so he may have a "gay-phase" just because he finds it easier to talk to other males or he may even pretend he's a female to interact easier). If you change your gender everyday because you change your mood it means that you are very unstable and mentally unbalanced. Everybody got mood swings. "Changing" your gender means that you refuse to adapt and solve your daily problems and this leads to an incapacity to have a normal life in which you have to deal with a lot more shit than mood swings (threat, injustice, crimes, even war in some areas). If you want a family, you can't pretend the next day that you are single just because you feel you want that. If you want to run a business, you can't stop in the middle saying you feel like you want to be free and happy. If you keep hiding from your problems you will be unable to achieve anything serious in your life. Before thinking about changing your gender, ask yourself if this is not just an escape, if it is just to comfort you mentally or not, if it is to avoid bullying or attacks. If there is a cause in the external environment that leads to this, then you know it's a wrong move and you avoid dealing with the world. You can't spend your life in a crystal ball, get used to it. My advice: Stick to your natural gender and forget the shit people do. And don't go to get brain therapy, that's a sign of your incapacity to solve your problems. Do that yourself.
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I know how to cope with problems and at this moment I seem fine with my life,having good financial status and being contented with the things I achieve. And I got no problems switching genders everyday,for I'm used to it and at least I can make my parents wishes come true: For mom to have a graceful daughter and for dad to have a son he can teach everything he knew(without them knowing I literally switch genders of course),it's just that when I see other people sticking with their biological genders I feel out of place most of the time and giving myself a 'label' is hard. For the mental state,I am very stable, and had personality development lessons from school which I learned a lot from. :)
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You shouldn't switch just because your parents want you to or because they like it. I don't know, it sounds crazy. To me, this thing with gender changing or inventing more genders is a complete madness. You are only what nature says you are. Your genitals define your gender. It's up to you anyway. I would never do that if I were you. My mum always wanted a girl and she kept living in her world trying to get me to act more feminine. It never worked and she has to cope with this. I will always be what my chromosomes say I am. A man.