Is it normal to have multiple fetish es?

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Hello there... I know this is weird, but ever since i was s all (like 7 years or so), I liked to tape my mouth and tie my legs..
Well... Then "internet" era came..
Now it's latex, microfoam and PVC tape gags.. Vacuum bags..
This stuff is really enjoyable to me..
Thing is... It sometimes causes me to be angry or upset, because of almost no privacy..
Every since I was thinking.. "Tie me up" or.. "I really want to be tied"...

Yes, I'm submissive male..
I'm really into tape gags, especially those, when you can see lips curves thru...

My question is... Is this too bad?
I mean... I don't hurt anybody.. But I can't enjoy or open to that either.. I'm 19... And many years of study ahead.. So.. No privacy for next few years...

Any tips? I really want to explore this..

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  • SwickDinging
    4 years ago

    Prague is lovely, I'm jealous that you live there!

    Anyway, yes this is normal. Bondage type fetishes are one of the most common of all, so don't feel like you're a freak because I promise you that loads of "normal" women are into this shit too, and you won't struggle to find them if you put yourself out there.

    As for the privacy thing... Can't you go to sex clubs? Do they have those in Prague? I'm not even into any of this sort of stuff but I have on occasion stopped by these kinds of clubs because someone I was dating at the time was into it, or once it was because an especially wild friend wanted to get dressed up and meet there for drinks before a night out. There were people getting tied up and whipped and all that sort of stuff. Everyone was really going for it.

    Prague is a big city, I'm sure you'll find stuff like that there.

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    • Anonymous Post Author
      4 years ago

      Yeah, I guess I could do some "research" on clubs and stuff.. Thing is.. I don't drink alcohol, or.. Smoke or anything.. I'm clean.
      Also I'm shy extrovert.
      Well, thanks for tip.
      Have a nice day!

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      • SwickDinging
        4 years ago

        You don't need to drink or smoke to go to a club. And the great thing about a sex club is it doesn't matter if you are shy, people will approach you anyway.

        Good luck with whatever you decide to do!

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        • Anonymous Post Author
          4 years ago

          Aight.
          I looked over that - not my type of thing.
          Thing is.. I don't really know how to communicate in general,so that's a bit of problem. It gets better gradually, though.
          I think - Best thing for now would be asking for some contacts of kinky people. I feel way better over net.

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  • Iszzy123
    4 years ago

    I like milfs

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  • thecrispsslut
    4 years ago

    i got a weird fetish for shoving bags of crisps up my ass along with the empty bags . i dont eat them as i dont like them .what would you do to me and what brand/flavor would you use in my hole? how many bags ? also love the bags being rubbed on my sissy clit too. x

    i think your fetish is normal everyday bdsm

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  • TheBlindInquisitor
    4 years ago

    Yes

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  • [Old Memory]
    4 years ago

    Absa-stinkin-lutely.
    With sort of an absentee wife you learn to cultivate a vivid imagination.

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  • Ellenna
    4 years ago

    Is there some way you can change your living situation to have a room of your own? Regardless of your kinky tastes, any adult needs privacy.

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    • Anonymous Post Author
      4 years ago

      No, I don't actually think so..
      I can't handle much stress - thougu I'm able to manage more and more as I age..
      I don't have money.. In Prague, 20m² are rented for.. Something like 400-500$,which is totally inacceptable.
      Average job here is like.. 1000$... It's bad... Very bad..
      And sice I can't handle much.. It's even worse.

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  • Doesnormalmatter
    4 years ago

    This is so relatable! I am probably more of a dom than a sub male but I enjoy both. I kinda have a hard time understanding your concern however. How do you not have privacy when your 19 years old? You implied that you are at college of some sort and that seems pretty private to me. I do suppose it depends on your rooming sutuation tho. Also if your into sex in general this much, I would work on getting some of that. The fact that you post about fetishes yet mention nothing of your sex life is kinda ironic and makes it tough for people to help you. But I have been, and to some extent still am in a similar situation similar to what you describe. And I certainly have plenty of fetishes! And ball gags are way sexier than tape gags also.

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    • Anonymous Post Author
      4 years ago

      Well... I'm virgin at first.
      I'm on autism spectrum (AS) and.. I quite have some difficulties dating and so.. So I spend my time on internet.. Searching for answers.
      Well... By privacy i mean.. I have no dedicated room and I live with grandparents.. Who are a bit upset About that... They know that already.. As they found me doing some "bad stuff"...
      They don't understand.

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      • Doesnormalmatter
        4 years ago

        Well I don't know shit about autism or how it affects people, and I won't pretend to. Are you saying your grandparents caught you fapping to kinky shit? That sounds pretty bad lol.

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        • Anonymous Post Author
          4 years ago

          Something like that, lol.
          It was bad at moment, but they tend to forget, so... Idk :D

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