I know this post is old, but the same thing happened to me when I lost my virginity. My boyfriend is pretty well hung and I am very petite, so I also thought it was just a size issue at first. People on the internet told me the same things, be relaxed, well lubed, use a dildo... But out of fear from all of the blood (because it was like getting my period for an hour)and unbearable pain, I went to the doctor. Turns out starting a hormonal birth control pill or doing anything else that might change the conditions in the vagina can cause something called bacterial vaginosis. It's not an STD, just a temporary infection anyone can get like a yeast infection. I got prescribed a medicinal gel and after a week could easily and comfortably take in my well hung boyfriend with no pain and lots of pleasure.
Unfortunately, the romantic first time that we had planned with a nice dinner and the expensive honeymoon suite at the nicest hotel in town was practically ruined by all the blood and pain. And, we ended up *really* losing our virginities to each other on a twin bed in a crappy dorm room. But, hey, we're still together and enjoy a pretty great sex life.
Hope this helps someone who might stumble across it.
IIN to have made my boyfriend stop during sex twice now?
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I know this post is old, but the same thing happened to me when I lost my virginity. My boyfriend is pretty well hung and I am very petite, so I also thought it was just a size issue at first. People on the internet told me the same things, be relaxed, well lubed, use a dildo... But out of fear from all of the blood (because it was like getting my period for an hour)and unbearable pain, I went to the doctor. Turns out starting a hormonal birth control pill or doing anything else that might change the conditions in the vagina can cause something called bacterial vaginosis. It's not an STD, just a temporary infection anyone can get like a yeast infection. I got prescribed a medicinal gel and after a week could easily and comfortably take in my well hung boyfriend with no pain and lots of pleasure.
Unfortunately, the romantic first time that we had planned with a nice dinner and the expensive honeymoon suite at the nicest hotel in town was practically ruined by all the blood and pain. And, we ended up *really* losing our virginities to each other on a twin bed in a crappy dorm room. But, hey, we're still together and enjoy a pretty great sex life.
Hope this helps someone who might stumble across it.