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is it normal to have friends who have stopped talking to me and don;t invite me to anything? they just stoped talking to me! we were best friends last year!!! and now they just say they can;t hang out, what should i do??
You're probably really phony and/or annoying and they never considered you to be a close friend in the first place. In all likelihood, they just let you hang around until you annoyed them to the point where they decided to avoid you. Try to act more normal to form better friendships, maybe read "How to Win Friends and Influence People" by Dale Carnegie.
Honestly, fuck why it happened, and it could be for any number of reasons... Rumors, jealousy, them just not being caring people... I've seen friends have some terrible breakups and seen people do fucked up shit, and been on the receiving end.
All that matters is people like that are everywhere, sometimes insidious, but not really worth giving a flying fuck over. The real friends invite you over when you're freaking out at 4am, or cover you at the bar if you're broke, or help you move. Just a matter of picking out the good people from all the losers.
Well unless you did something horrid, which I doubt - be thankful that you are no longer part of a nasty group who arbitrarily turns on its members and shuts them out emotionally & socially.
That has to hurt, and while you may be lonely while you make new friends, at least you can put them behind you.
Can you also think of how it is you came to misjudge these people in the first place? That maybe a valuable learning.
Bodiewangler is completely wrong. It's probably not that you're annoying, but that your said friends are either shallow or just oblivious to the fact that you feel left out.
Trying to act more 'normal', if that's not the way you truly are, is only going to make you form friendships where you can't be honest about yourself. And those are not the kind of friendships you want. Be yourself and you will find friends who treat you better!