Is it normal to have feelings for two girls?

Sorry if my story is a bit unorganize so I'll start like that:

Well, I'm 19 years old, I have a girl friend, she's very beautiful, a nice body, a nice personality and she doesn't take shit from anyone, including me, I like that. :)

The problem is: There's always a problem happening between us. Like 2 months ago, she tells me she lied on her age, she's 16 years old instead of 18 ( I live in canada btw, no law issues ). That big lie made my friends to take distance from her and that makes me a bit uneasy about it.

And Like, I don't know, maybe she's too nice looking or people hate me. But some guys tried to tell lies about me to my girlfriend. ( They also live in the same appartments complex as me ) The first one said to her:
"Tell me, what are you doing with your boyfriend, he doesn't work hard, he's lazy, doesn't have money" and he even told her I was cheating her with 3 differents girls when she's not with me.

Omg like, I was washing dishes and she came to my kitchen saying YOU WERE LYING TO ME FROM THE BEGGINING, BLAH BLAH BLAH I HATE YOU. I was like, Smiling at her, thinking that it was some kind of dramatic jokes. She was crying all her tears and after 45 mins I managed to learn the name of who told him that, because that guy said to her ( Promise me to not tell your boyfriend that I said that. )

I talked to the guy, showed him a lesson, told him that he tries to low every guys ( my friends had issues of him talking shit to girls about them too) around him to try to look better in the eyes of 16 years old girls.

And the other one. Well, I had 2 friends coming to my place that night, I've been doing "things" with one of the girl's called Jessica. My girlfriend she she would go to some place with more of my other friends. When they came back, we finished the movie. So like when they came back they were going home. So that guy said to my girlfriend " Can I talk to you?".

He proceeded to tell her that I absolutely cheated her with jessica while she was gone, that I am not the good guy for her. In summary, he was saying I was an asshole to her.

( Please note that I've never cheated in my whole life)

So, as the previous one, she told her to not tell her boyfriend about this, but since the first accident she tells me everything.

So I got to his room, told him if this was true, he said not at first, when I said are you sure you weren't saying that I am not the good guy for her? He said so what.

Damn he was laughing at my face and I'm always calm, It's very rare in my life that I scream and get violent. I told him Listen up, asshole. Blah blah blah. If you talk shit to me again I punch you in the face ( Like i'm not really fit and the guy is 3x bigger than me lol). He was still laughing at me, saying what are you gonna do? I told him watch this.
30 mins later the owner came in and told him he had to find a new place to live at. ect.

Is It Normal?
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  • you are young, its probably your penis talking. no offense. :)

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  • you should only really break up with someone If there's problems with them, not because of another person
    or you'll regret it
    because if you end up with the other girl, and you guys fight.. you'll think of your orignial gf and how there was NOTHING wrong
    then you'll feel like shit :)

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  • I say keep your gf let the other girl go
    I thought I had that same problem once and chose the "other" guy, well it's true what they say, you don't know what you have till you loose it

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  • I think it's normal

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  • The way I was asking if this is normal, is I've braved through alot of problems for our love, And after all this, I feel attracted to someone else.

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  • And damn, there's always guys flirting at her and she always says she already found the boyfriend of her dreams.. abruptly disrupting their flirting lol.

    So. About Jessica, I had feeling for her before, and she came for a party at my place, she wasn't feeling good so I rubbed her back like I always did when she wasn't feeling good. When I made sure she was fine I gave her a hug and she kissed me, I really didn't see it coming.

    I talked to her about it and stuff, I try to make her say its an accident. But hell, I still fell things about her I think. And my girlfriend is jealous as hell, but I know I'll never cheat her, I ain't that kind of a guy.

    Is it normal?

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