It's normal but it's certainly not ideal. I mean.....doesn't it make you feel kind of silly to be obsessing over some 15-year-old kid and wondering why he doesn't pay attention to you? My advice is to think about how inexperienced he is, and probably so much less mature than you, so that you can start thinking of him as a kid again instead of a potential love interest.
I am not the author but I understand it. I used to like my first girlfriend's best friend. She was really weird and very into salior moon which I never understood. However, she was sorta cute and my sister was her friend for a while so I had gotten used to her.
Nothing ever happened with this girl as I am an honest person but I would be lying to say I didn't htink about it. Same thing with her friend Jean. Long story, it only becomes wrong if the girl is way too young (She was 14, I was 18 so it wasn't bad to like her, just wrong if I acted on it.) like a child and not a young woman or you do it in a creepy way.
Don't steal her stuff and then "use" it. Just be honest and his best friend. Later, you have options but do the right thing and wait.
Oh I really have no intentions of "getting" with this kid. I mean yeah I have feelings toward him but I am not going to act upon them because I can only imagine how that might feel for the poor boy; a 19 year old woman getting to know a young boy. I mean I value the families friendship too much too screw it up. Thank you for the advise though :)
Is it normal to have feelings for someone younger than me?
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It's normal but it's certainly not ideal. I mean.....doesn't it make you feel kind of silly to be obsessing over some 15-year-old kid and wondering why he doesn't pay attention to you? My advice is to think about how inexperienced he is, and probably so much less mature than you, so that you can start thinking of him as a kid again instead of a potential love interest.
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I am not the author but I understand it. I used to like my first girlfriend's best friend. She was really weird and very into salior moon which I never understood. However, she was sorta cute and my sister was her friend for a while so I had gotten used to her.
Nothing ever happened with this girl as I am an honest person but I would be lying to say I didn't htink about it. Same thing with her friend Jean. Long story, it only becomes wrong if the girl is way too young (She was 14, I was 18 so it wasn't bad to like her, just wrong if I acted on it.) like a child and not a young woman or you do it in a creepy way.
Don't steal her stuff and then "use" it. Just be honest and his best friend. Later, you have options but do the right thing and wait.
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Oh I really have no intentions of "getting" with this kid. I mean yeah I have feelings toward him but I am not going to act upon them because I can only imagine how that might feel for the poor boy; a 19 year old woman getting to know a young boy. I mean I value the families friendship too much too screw it up. Thank you for the advise though :)