So normal. When you find you have chemistry with someone its hard to overcome, regardless of being with someone else for a long period of time. Its exciting and refreshing in a way, even just to fantasise about. I was with my boyfriend for 4 years, we have now broken up... but I fell very badly for a guy I worked with. Thought about him all the time... but didnt do anything about it. Then later I met another guy and I felt the same again! Didn't do anything though once again. Then I met someone different AGAIN. Then I realised, I wasn't really "falling" for these guys so to speak, I just wanted to be single. I didn't want to stick with just my boyfriend. Now we a broken up on good terms and I am more then happy to be single after 4 years. It feels good. If its just one guy you think you have fallen for, dont act. He may slip from your mind in a few months as what happened to me. You just need to think really hard, would you be prepared to leave your boyfriend JUST to be single? Being single might be nice for a while, but you may regret it in the future.
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So normal. When you find you have chemistry with someone its hard to overcome, regardless of being with someone else for a long period of time. Its exciting and refreshing in a way, even just to fantasise about. I was with my boyfriend for 4 years, we have now broken up... but I fell very badly for a guy I worked with. Thought about him all the time... but didnt do anything about it. Then later I met another guy and I felt the same again! Didn't do anything though once again. Then I met someone different AGAIN. Then I realised, I wasn't really "falling" for these guys so to speak, I just wanted to be single. I didn't want to stick with just my boyfriend. Now we a broken up on good terms and I am more then happy to be single after 4 years. It feels good. If its just one guy you think you have fallen for, dont act. He may slip from your mind in a few months as what happened to me. You just need to think really hard, would you be prepared to leave your boyfriend JUST to be single? Being single might be nice for a while, but you may regret it in the future.