Is it normal to have feelings for my friend, or not?

I've known this girl from since i was 10 years old, we weren't that close, we usually see each other in the summer, but last summer we got really close, we hang out all the time, then when i returned home from the summer i couldn't stop thinking about her and got really strong feelings about her and I'm sure that she feels the same thing,from the way she laughs when ever i say even the stupidest thing, and the way she always kind of touches my hand, and the way she looks at me when ever she thinks I'm not looking at her, so we kept in touch for months after, then one night i couldn't take it, so i told her how i felt on the phone, because we live in different countries, and her response was that i was her friend and " a special one too", we r still friends, we still keep in touch from time to time, but not like before, anyways my question is" is it normal to still want to peruse her, and still have feelings for her, even though she wants to be friends?"

Is It Normal?
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  • Friend who likes friend + Friend who also like friend = FUCK BUDDIES!

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  • It's completely normal. From a standpoint of desire it's whathe makesure us human if we don't have desire we are nothing.

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  • no.. you have a far feelings than that you are havong right npw.
    but you both have some country type of distance. so i would say it is better to be her friend.
    or if you can... grab her to the your country.

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  • You have to fuck her whether she wants to or not.

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  • Try to convince her to take it to the next level, even if only for a little while, just to get a feel for the whole bf/gf thing.

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  • idk i been in that situation a couple times.
    i used to like my bestfriend who was a bi virgin girl well still is. we made out a couple times when drunk and she told me she was drunk and thats why it happened then one time we ended up going to far and i fingered her and stuff no sex tho. was awkward for a bit but things went back to normal but now she doesnt go to the same college as me but we still keep in touch and see each other. sometimes i still feel things for her. i like to think she felt the same way that one time we went far cuz she asked me too but was like if we do this im gonna need space cause your my bestfrined and i dont wanna ruin it. ehh shes more into girls now though. i always felt like i wasnt good looking for her since she was gorgeous and has high standards on looks. but sometimes i feel the attraction from her. id say to stop pursuing and let her come to you. absence makes the heart grow fonder.

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