Is it normal to have feelings for 2 different girls?

There is my girlfriend we have been going out for almost 6 months.. We tell each other we love each other and that stuff... But just recently another girl came into the picture i've known her for 5 years but i just started getting feelings for her and she feels the same way... But the story is my girlfriend right now me and her have never met we date on the internet and call each other over the phone, I've tried bringing it up that i want to break up but she started crying on me an sounded really misseirable and i just completely shut down... But this other girl.. me and her are talking alot an all the time flirting, and her, I can actually see every day on the other hand my girlfriend lives like 45 minutes away and she wont tell her mom about me but neither will the other girl probably... Because im not that straight A's "wealthy family" kind of guy.. I dont know what to do please help me...

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  • Jen118584

    No one can tell you what to do, you just have to do what you feel. You don't love your girlfriend....this girl you've never actually met...obviously, or you wouldn't have tried to break up with her and you wouldn't like this other chick. You're obviously young so both of these relationships are most likely fleeing and temporary anyways. Just do what you want. I'm more inclined to tell you to just man up and break it off with internet chick and see what happens with this girl you can actually hang out with.

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    • theunspoken

      thanks, but uhh i broke up with her tonight an i feel like shit now.. but it will give me some time to think...

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  • mr.boy

    TRUE sqwd as I type right now I am in love... But Budd don't worry ull know when u see the right girl. Sometimes it is harder for others but I suggest to not get mad and if u love girl a and moving then get back with her. Its girl bs fault if she can't be with u and just be happy

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  • sqwidword33

    my girlfriend lives 45 minutes away. i'd never consider breaking up with her. listen, love overpowers distance, and i don't know why these people are giving crap advice but don't you dare break up with her. you can guarantee this girl cares about you, so don't end it... then again, you don't understand love. and don't get mad, believe me, you will see exactly what i mean one day ;)

    btw im 13, so be aware im not dumb enough to say a person your age CAN'T feel love, but based off the post i know you don't. i've felt love, and it changes a person....

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  • theunspoken

    well this was a total lose... Michelle the one that was close to me was to shy to actually be in a for real relationship, we broke up and i have been talking to my ex for the past month and a half seriously and i told her how i feel about her because i still have feelings for her and the FUCKFACE who said i dont love her SHUT THE FUCK UP YOU DONT KNOW ME! BITCH... but im really considering in going back out with her an me and my family are probably moving up there closer to her anyways...

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  • theunspoken

    Thanks everybody this advise, it has really helped! I'm very appreciative for the advise! But I hope things work out for me and the other girl I haven't asked her out yet... But I'm going to in like 4 days, I'm going to wait until I get to see her again. But for my ex-girlfriend me and her are friends now but she is still taking it pretty hard. =/

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  • BrokenHeartz

    Its normal to have those feelings, the difficult part is, you can't choose both of them. You are not given a choice who to love, people just feel it all of a sudden, the question is, who is it that you truly love. Choose the right person or you'll just end up hurting both of them and you as well. Its like this, if you chose the wrong person, you won't feel the love anymore as you grow old, and then you'll regret choosing her, and once you feel that way, its most likely that all you will be able to do is hurt her. My friend, if you choose the right person, the other one will get hurt, but the pain will pass by when she meets the right one for her. Its not for us to decide, this is your life, think with your mind and feel with your heart and everything else will be alright.

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  • BobPopTot

    It's normal. The only thing that might be difficult to realize is that the long-distance gal is harder to communicate with, therefore the progression in telling the mother about the relationship and etc. will be way slower. Additionally to the long-distance girl (Girl A), she might change. If she is a teenager, she might change and then disagreements will form. To make it easier with the Girl A, I'd suggest breaking up with her. As crule as it sounds. You can suggest being friends. But she should be happier with someone she can experience in person. And you should maybe experience with Girl B.

    Btw, my comment is basically a suggestion!! You have to do your own thinking and calm yourself down. It's a pain for the brain, so better to relax and see how life takes you.

    Answer: Normal. Good luck.

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  • Dantevus

    That is completely and totally normal. And take it from a very experienced guy in those kind of situations, the girl you actually get to see is far more valuable than a long distance relationship that you don't get to see. Being able to talk and hang out in person is a big deal and will nurture a much better relationship than internet and phone. As for them not wanting to tell their parents about you, whichever one you pick have a talk with them about it and find out why, they might just be shy.

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