I sometimes find myself like this with people I’m extremely close to and I think sometimes it could be because I’ve created an idea of what the person or the relationship should be like in my head and when they don’t live up to it I almost feel a bit betrayed. It’s helpful for me to remind myself that they are their own person and they will make mistakes or just do their own thing even when I don’t agree with it and that’s ok.
Is it normal to have extreme mood swings in my relationships
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I sometimes find myself like this with people I’m extremely close to and I think sometimes it could be because I’ve created an idea of what the person or the relationship should be like in my head and when they don’t live up to it I almost feel a bit betrayed. It’s helpful for me to remind myself that they are their own person and they will make mistakes or just do their own thing even when I don’t agree with it and that’s ok.
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katebushkush
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that's true. I think I need to work a bit on sorting out what I do and don't want in my relationships and figuring out a baseline for my mood :)