Is it normal to have experienced abuse, molestation, or rape?

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A simple poll to see how many people have come into personal contact with these things VS those with no personal contact with these things.

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  • yesnomaybeso
    11 years ago | pl

    My ex was insane. Once he got angry at me, so he broke up with me. I loved him so much, but after we broke up, he started being so annoying and talking dirty all the time. He used to tell me that he didn't feel like kissing me because he didn't love me anymore but he wanted to fuck. I was still in love with him so at first I would do whatever he wanted, but, then, I saw that he was so rude to me all the time, he would only be a little bit nice when he wanted my pussy. So I got tired of it. My friends said I should stop it, so I did. Then he started coming to me and bringing me to any corner he'd find where people wouldn't listen to us and hold me very tight and try to do stuff with me. At first I was too scared to say anything, but then I had to say something since he started to hold me too tight and hurt me. He got very angry that I thought he'd spank me, but he just grabbed on to me and said, slowly and in a creepy voice, "Sure, but just so you know, I don't like you anymore and I will never ever do".
    We haven't really talked anymore.

    I don't know what you think of this, but yeah. I wanted to share. It's alright now, but I had such a bad time.

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    • mightymouse
      11 years ago | pl

      That sucks. Sorry you had to go through that... he's obviously got some issues. How old where you when all that was going on?

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      • yesnomaybeso
        11 years ago | pl

        It's fine, to be honest, I only realised he had been a total dick after it. When it was happening, I remember thinking I had to behave well or I wouldn't be good enough for him. I did things, went to places, chose a subject at school, and talked about stuff I didn't like just because of him. Now, I do see I was stupid. But I was young. I had actually been so close to him for 4 years when he started behaving like this. I was like 16? But when I was 17 it got worse. So yeah, around 17-18. I'm 19 now, I haven't seen him for more than a year.

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  • dirtybirdy
    11 years ago | pl

    Well I've experienced a few things. Fairly minor compared to what some of my friends and family have been though. I don't really want to get into any detail about it though. But I know too many people who have been through this shit.

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  • RaiieannaDaurken
    11 years ago | pl

    I was raped at 13 years of age. Then, I ended up in several abusive relationships because of the thoughts and feelings I had about myself, towards myself, as a result of the rape. Marital rape is rape, despite what anyone says. Yes, I loved my husband, but when you are too scared or too sick or in too much pain to enjoy sex with your husband, and you say no, that's not sex. That's rape. Is it normal to go through it? Unfortunately, statistics say yes. In America, 1 in 4 women will be raped. 1 in 14 children will be molested. And 1 in 28 men will be raped. Is it normal to go through it? Yes. Is it normal that sick people can cause this to happen? I can't comprehend that ever being normal.

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