My first cat, we had in a flat.
It was very happy, a large flat, lots of love etc...
One day, she fell down the balcony and landed in the grass below. She was kind of afraid, and huddled up until we picked her up.
A whole while later, she fell down again while hunting some bird. This time, she looked around a bit and was sniffing and exploring when we were there to pick her up.
A month later, she "fell down" twice more, and gladly explored her new environment. We eventually had to install a cat door to let her come and go freely and prevent her from "jumping down" herself.
I think it's about the same thing here. You would not miss that because you never really cared about that...especially if you never had an orgasm.
You awakened to a new way of sexuality that you never cared about before because you never experienced it before. Now a flame has been kindled and the fire is burning bright :)
As for techniques: Two of my earliest masturbation "helps" were the shower head and the handle of my electric toothbrush. Clitplay is the right way to go, also it gets easier to "reach there" once you had your first orgasm. Keep going at it, maybe try different stimuli...for some, fantasy alone works best, others want to see something, or hear(possibly even other females), or smell(like a worn T-shirt of your friend). Just experiment with what works best for you :)
Also, i believe you'll make a great partner someday, good luck with that :)
IIN to have developed a certain sex drive so quick? (masturbation)
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Well, let me answer with an analogy...
My first cat, we had in a flat.
It was very happy, a large flat, lots of love etc...
One day, she fell down the balcony and landed in the grass below. She was kind of afraid, and huddled up until we picked her up.
A whole while later, she fell down again while hunting some bird. This time, she looked around a bit and was sniffing and exploring when we were there to pick her up.
A month later, she "fell down" twice more, and gladly explored her new environment. We eventually had to install a cat door to let her come and go freely and prevent her from "jumping down" herself.
I think it's about the same thing here. You would not miss that because you never really cared about that...especially if you never had an orgasm.
You awakened to a new way of sexuality that you never cared about before because you never experienced it before. Now a flame has been kindled and the fire is burning bright :)
As for techniques: Two of my earliest masturbation "helps" were the shower head and the handle of my electric toothbrush. Clitplay is the right way to go, also it gets easier to "reach there" once you had your first orgasm. Keep going at it, maybe try different stimuli...for some, fantasy alone works best, others want to see something, or hear(possibly even other females), or smell(like a worn T-shirt of your friend). Just experiment with what works best for you :)
Also, i believe you'll make a great partner someday, good luck with that :)