I don't see the problem in fantasizing about it occasionally. Just don't flirt with guys intentionally anymore and don't take the fantasies seriously. That is, don't become infatuated (or develop crushes) with guys you think about sexually.
You could think of it like porn if you want. If you've ever watched porn, you're there for the show, you're not watching it because you have romantic feelings for those people.
IIN to have crushes on other people when in a committed relationship?
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I don't see the problem in fantasizing about it occasionally. Just don't flirt with guys intentionally anymore and don't take the fantasies seriously. That is, don't become infatuated (or develop crushes) with guys you think about sexually.
You could think of it like porn if you want. If you've ever watched porn, you're there for the show, you're not watching it because you have romantic feelings for those people.