Try not to think about it too much. I have been shy my whole life but after a friend introduced me to her friend from school, I just decided to jump in and talk to him and we are now sort of seeing each other (I only say sort of because it isn't official yet.) Just try to open up a little bit. Take a risk and chat with some girls you are interested in.
It shouldn't be a race to get a boy/girlfriend. Nor should it be a race to lose your virginity. I am 21 and I just recently lost mine to the guy I mentioned above, no regrets-I am glad I waited and gave it to him. If you are going to have sex with someone make sure it isn't simply to lose your virginity. You could regret it later.
Just try to be confident and put yourself out there, and someone will come along when you least expect them to. Over time, your confidence will build up. Good luck :)
Is it normal to have been single for all my life?
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Try not to think about it too much. I have been shy my whole life but after a friend introduced me to her friend from school, I just decided to jump in and talk to him and we are now sort of seeing each other (I only say sort of because it isn't official yet.) Just try to open up a little bit. Take a risk and chat with some girls you are interested in.
It shouldn't be a race to get a boy/girlfriend. Nor should it be a race to lose your virginity. I am 21 and I just recently lost mine to the guy I mentioned above, no regrets-I am glad I waited and gave it to him. If you are going to have sex with someone make sure it isn't simply to lose your virginity. You could regret it later.
Just try to be confident and put yourself out there, and someone will come along when you least expect them to. Over time, your confidence will build up. Good luck :)