Is it normal to have anxiety

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I have been with my boyfriend for over a year. He lives me more than anything and isn't afraid to show it no matter who is around. He's got a great career, we have lots in common.....sounds perfect. But for some reason, I can't let myself fully love him back? And sometimes thinking about our relationship and future gives me such extreme anxiety!! His brother just got engaged and wen I found out, I cried.... I felt all these different emotions, but mist of all it made me sad???? What the he'll us wrong with me? Is it just that I'm not meant to be with him? Ugh my stomach hurts with all these confusing feelings! Help!

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Based on 44 votes (36 yes)
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  • bollybots2009
    12 years ago

    Emotional person. No it's a complete waste of time, your relationship, if your some kind of emotional nervous wreck. There is something wrong. You shouldn't commit to a relationship before you have sorted yourself out.

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  • [Old Memory]
    13 years ago

    Sounds like you feel the relationships really serious, and you don't want it moving too fast- you want to enjoy your time together without feeling the pressure of marriage or something

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  • dragona
    13 years ago

    It is perfectly normal for you to be anxious. Love and commitment is serious and you need to feel comfortable. Anxiety is a way you know something needs looked at. I would do some soul searching. Hope things get better for you.

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  • Gidget
    13 years ago

    Ok sounds like ur freaking out either because u dnt really want to be with him or u really do and it is scary for u to imagine never feeling a first kiss with someone again or all those exciting feelings that come with experiencing something new your prollie just scared talk to him about it

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  • texas1
    13 years ago

    pickles

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