Perfectly normal. You can't control who you develop feelings for. You should discuss it with him, get it out in the open. If he doesn't feel the same way, you may feel rejected, but you will be able to heal and move on from it. If he does feel the same way, then something may develop out of it. Either you may find yourselves wanting to be together long-term, or you may have sex once and find you have gotten it out of your system.
If you do have sex, take care to not become pregnant, although if he is the son of your cousin (actually First Cousin-Once Removed, not Second Cousin) the chance of birth defects is approx 3.125% (source: Wikipedia).
Is it normal to have an unwanted, secret crush on your cousin?
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Perfectly normal. You can't control who you develop feelings for. You should discuss it with him, get it out in the open. If he doesn't feel the same way, you may feel rejected, but you will be able to heal and move on from it. If he does feel the same way, then something may develop out of it. Either you may find yourselves wanting to be together long-term, or you may have sex once and find you have gotten it out of your system.
If you do have sex, take care to not become pregnant, although if he is the son of your cousin (actually First Cousin-Once Removed, not Second Cousin) the chance of birth defects is approx 3.125% (source: Wikipedia).