Is it normal to have an uncontrollable need for secrets?

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I have absolutely uncontrollable need to obtain secrets. From anyone, and everyone.

I can't stand to think that someone is keeping a secret from me, and it will make me very jealous and angry to know that a secret is being kept. Sometimes the feelings of anger cause impulsive fantasies imagining scenarios where somehow the secret being kept causes the death of the said person.

In fact, I generally start to feel better when I start thinking of fantasies that cause pain to this person.

is it normal to have a need for secrets, and to become upset when you don't get them?

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  • NeuroNeptunian
    11 years ago | pl

    It doesn't sound normal, it also sounds that you have control issues stemming from insecurity associated with not having knowledge of what is going on around you. I can see how you would be offended by people who supposably trust you keeping secrets from you (and if you know that they are keeping a secret, or they told you that it is a secret then there is a chance that you might be hanging out with some immature folk), but I'd suggest that you find something that interests you (studying Psychology, airplanes, movies, etc.) if you are THAT concerned about the personal business of others.

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  • markiii
    11 years ago | pl

    hey wana know a secret? i do the same thing tell me if u wana trade

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  • karmasAbich
    11 years ago | pl

    This sounds incredibly nosey, you would not have lasted in my family growing up, it was secret galore.
    Find something to do, so you wont care

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  • christophielove
    11 years ago | pl

    when my friends are keeping something from me i will uselly storm of or get really moody. though come back preety quickly to beg for them to tell me so in a way though no i've never imagined them dying :)

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