Is it normal to have a sociopathic sister?

My sister is 14. Ever since birth, she has been a problem. She spends all day, every day in her room, door locked, on the computer. It is during this time that she has come up with multiple fake identities that she assumes while online. These range from 14yr olds to 25yr olds, living in Texas, to California, to Michigan etc. and a variety of made-up names and backstories. She even maintains a list of every email and the person it is associated with so she can log on, and have social interactions with herself, through the network of fake profiles she creates on facebook/twitter/myspace/youtube etc. She is even registered on adult dating sites and talking to adult males. She steals random people's pictures and then uses them to verify her fake identities. She doesn't know that I know about it because she deletes the history, saved passwords, and she even installed a keylogger and encrypted her pictures and documents because she is so afraid someone will find something. I have ways past this however but every time I show my mom, she blows it off or gives her a "stern" warning which has no effect. My sister is great at manipulating my mom, and my mom is great at being a dumbass and believing her. My sister, outside of the internet, is an unsocial manipulator and compulsive liar. She lies about things that it's pointless to lie about because she's just so used to lying. I've been a perfect child, always had good grades in school, stayed in the right crowd, helped my family and I was always responsible. My sister has no responsibility, bad grades, very hateful with no respect for my parents, hangs around with crackheads and troublemakers, and helps no one and maintains no responsibility whatsoever, I'm always the one cleaning her messes. My parents blame me for everything that happens in our family. My sister plays these mind games that pit my parents against eachother and it is leading them to a divorce which is just what my sister wants. She has also manipulated my parents into thinking I have a mental disorder with no proof whatsoever. She regularly steals things from my room so once a week when she's gone I have to go into her disgusting room to get my stuff back, if she hasn't auctioned it off or lost it already. My sister also abuses our pets, three cats one of which has a bad back due to her throwing him against a wall. IS THIS NOT FUCKED UP? My parents will do nothing about her problem and it's driving me insane having to live within all this chaos where my parents scream at eachother practically every day my sister is there.. When she's gone everyone gets along wonderfully but she is hellbent on ruining everything she possibly can and goes especially out of her way to ruin my life, lies about me to my friends, my parents, my girlfriends, anyone she can get to. Sorry for ranting but oh my god! This isn't even the half of it but she has pushed me so far that I can't even think straight, I can't take it anymore

Voting Results
19% Normal
Based on 59 votes (11 yes)
Help us keep this site organized and clean. Thanks!
[ Report Post ]
Comments ( 17 )
  • I hate how people are saying this isn't true. There really are people out there like this. Dude, get her help.

    Comment Hidden ( show )
  • NinjaAssasin

    I can't tell if this is true or not. But clearly you have a negative image of your sister in your mind. To you she does completely horrible and terrible things. I think that if you try to look past the mental image that you have for her, you might see that everything she does isn't that bad. I know from personal experience that I thought that my younger brother was the worst person in the world. But I got over the horrible things that he did to me in the past and I found that he wasn't such a bad person, and that we actually get along pretty well. Now I'm not saying to become best friends with your sister, but maybe try to see her from a positive light, instead of a bad one.

    Comment Hidden ( show )
  • Morgan_Freeman

    shoot her in the face. she will never contribute to humanity.

    Comment Hidden ( show )
  • welkinson

    Yes. Lots of siblings are like exact opposites. I think this is especially common in twins.

    Comment Hidden ( show )
  • Yandaman

    Dude, very simple solution! fight fire with fire!!! go in that room when she's not there and grab her computer/laptop!!! hide it.
    then I dont know if it is possible but get a second hand piece of shit that looks remotely like hers(same color) and proceed to beat the shit out of that thing into pieces and leave it lying there with a note that says.."not cool being thrown against a wall is it" your cat will thank you bad back and all and she might just get the fright of her fucking life that you have destroyed everything she has!!
    Be vigilant and be serious!! go fucking crazy while bashin the fuck out that machine!! when you feel she is sorry present her laptop- after deleting everysingle fucking file on that thing!!!! her happiness will quickly turn to realization that she is just another speck of dust like we all are on this planet!!..
    Put the little bitch in her place quicktime!!!!
    Peace!

    Comment Hidden ( show )
  • callb4ucome

    i believe u cuz unfortunately i use to be like this until i got into my 20's... she may not be a sociopath but she does have issues. I was a compulsive liar and i was very sneaky and manipulative with my parents i started writing their bank checks at 15 go figure. I was the only girl out of 4 boys and would steal my bro's stuff all the time. I admittedly had but one of are cats in the dryer but only for like 3sec....of course i know this soo insanely bad. This is in the past and I am in my mid 20's now. All i know is i dealt with verbal and physical abuse from my mother. And it was my mother who i loved more than anything at the time. It was a sick twisted thing. I did not feel loved as a child. I was always craving attention. I am so happy i grew up and found God. He saved me from everything.

    Comment Hidden ( show )
  • NaughtyCat

    I am your sister.
    And MissSorel. And NinjaAssasin and Trismegistus and NeuroNeptunium and EVERYONE.

    I own all these profiles, and if you don't log off and stop bothering me on IIN, I'll tell mom.

    Comment Hidden ( show )
  • tbiM20

    Volunteer to go to a psychiatrist next time she says you're mentally ill. Unfortunately the only thing you can do is to be supportive & loving to your parents until they figure it out for themselves. Or you could call Child Protective Services (or whatever its called where you live) & explain the problem, see if they can do anything. Or, if you have documentation of a stolen item (like your receipt for some jewelry, and a record of sale from her eBay account for the same jewelry), LEAVE IT WHERE IT IS, call the police, give them access to her computer. Definitely would not be popular in your family, but it is one way of getting her help.

    Comment Hidden ( show )
  • purpleflower

    She's probably not a sociopath, just neglected. Therapy is a very useful ever-present tool.

    Comment Hidden ( show )
  • BlkBrd

    Your sister is displaying a lot of symptoms of Conduct Disorder, which is essentially a prerequisite to Antisocial Personality Disorder-- i.e. Psychopathy. The most telling part is injuring animals. It's quite unfortunate that your parents aren't seeming to take any initiative to get her treated; though, even if they did there aren't any effective treatments if she WERE to have Conduct Disorder. My advice to you? Perhaps you yourself should be seeing a psychotherapist in order to help you cope with the issues within your family. You need to worry about how YOU are dealing with this. If you don't have much of a relationship with your sister and cannot offer her any kind of guidence as a mentor through your relationship, then you need to focus on maintaining yourself.

    Comment Hidden ( show )
  • dannygjk

    Judging by the responses here , the sociopaths are going to rule the world, sad. That is until they kill each other off, then the cockroaches will rule.

    Comment Hidden ( show )
  • i believe you and i think it is a huge problem for evryone involved. she definitely needs professional help, this gets said alot, but in this case it is a necessity.
    tell your parents she needs help, be upfront about it and put it back on them. say it as much as you can so noone is in any doubt about your views.
    the next time there is drama in the house tell them again that she needs professional intervention and then your parents will start feeling guilty for not doing anything, tell visiting relatives too. all the best

    Comment Hidden ( show )
  • Just like the user name above, this story was almost unreadable.

    Is is too much to ask for paragraphs?! And if your sister wants to act strange and get herself into trouble, let her, it's obvious she has no control of herself.

    Comment Hidden ( show )
  • almostunreadable

    This story seems made up to me. But if it's true, then could it be that it is you who understands those things this way in your mind? Perhaps you really do have some mental difficulty?

    Sorry, it's just that your story has some problematic points so I can't take it truthful as whole. Maybe at best (just) part of it *is* true.

    Comment Hidden ( show )
  • Graeson

    introduce me to your sister, she sounds wondeful and i'd like to meet the real her, not a fake profile

    Comment Hidden ( show )
  • TheOJguy

    kick the shit out of her and stuff, she seems socially incompetent on some level but ya get her to a Psychiatrist ASAP

    Comment Hidden ( show )
  • Trismegistus

    Multiple virtual identities dissociative disorder,
    With pseudologia fantastica and schizotypal personality traits.Factitious somatoform disorder.
    I just made it up.But kind of fits the picture.
    In a society going mad only the maddest will survive.

    Comment Hidden ( show )