Your preferences do not make you shallow, but avoiding a potential partner who could be perfect in every other way would be a little shallow. Weight isn't a permanent thing, it fluctuates. Just because a girl is chunky now doesn't mean she'll always be. If sex is really important to you, and you can't be attracted to overweight people, then obviously, weight WILL be a deal breaker with you. It's pretty lame that you felt the need to ask us if this is OK or normal. I think you just wanted people to agree with you so you feel less guilty about being shallow. If you don't like it, change it!
Is it normal to have a sexual aversion to chubby girls? Am I shallow?
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Your preferences do not make you shallow, but avoiding a potential partner who could be perfect in every other way would be a little shallow. Weight isn't a permanent thing, it fluctuates. Just because a girl is chunky now doesn't mean she'll always be. If sex is really important to you, and you can't be attracted to overweight people, then obviously, weight WILL be a deal breaker with you. It's pretty lame that you felt the need to ask us if this is OK or normal. I think you just wanted people to agree with you so you feel less guilty about being shallow. If you don't like it, change it!