As for girls gaining weight during pregnancy, I fully understand that, and it's to be expected. However, if a girl cares enough about her body, she'll lose the weight afterwards (or a good portion of it), without me having to take food away from her (which sounds a tad asshole-ish, and I wouldn't do that). If I have enough self-control to keep my weight in check, why can't she? If I ate the way I wanted to, I'd be over 200lbs (and it actually happened once, and I wasn't happy with how I looked or felt). I'd instead like to focus on maintaining a healthy lifestyle, together - Eating nutritious organic foods, drinking plenty of water, going out or walks, etc. Is that such a bad ideal for life?
Is it normal to have a sexual aversion to chubby girls? Am I shallow?
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As for girls gaining weight during pregnancy, I fully understand that, and it's to be expected. However, if a girl cares enough about her body, she'll lose the weight afterwards (or a good portion of it), without me having to take food away from her (which sounds a tad asshole-ish, and I wouldn't do that). If I have enough self-control to keep my weight in check, why can't she? If I ate the way I wanted to, I'd be over 200lbs (and it actually happened once, and I wasn't happy with how I looked or felt). I'd instead like to focus on maintaining a healthy lifestyle, together - Eating nutritious organic foods, drinking plenty of water, going out or walks, etc. Is that such a bad ideal for life?