I honestly stopped reading that about 3/4 through when the ranting started.
Don't feel bad. Attraction is a funny thing. I did online dating for a bit, I'm a tad porky, and if a guy said he liked slender girls I stayed away, even it was him initiating contact with me (my profile specifically stated I was chubby and had photos). At the end of the day, you HAVE to be sexually attracted to someone. She could be a perfect size 0 and you might not feel attraction. It's more than weight. It's more than personality. They need to be combined. Even then, a couple who are a perfect match on paper could not work out in real life.
The only thing that irked me was the above about the fingers. Do all fat girls have cold hands? Really? I'd say the extra padding makes them warm. The point isn't about the hands, it's about statements like that. Those sweeping statements make you sound like an asshole.
Appreciate that everyone is different. I can look at a ton of people and think they're attractive, but not be attracted to them. Shallowness is not being able to see this, and only believing that your 'type' is attractive.
Is it normal to have a sexual aversion to chubby girls? Am I shallow?
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I honestly stopped reading that about 3/4 through when the ranting started.
Don't feel bad. Attraction is a funny thing. I did online dating for a bit, I'm a tad porky, and if a guy said he liked slender girls I stayed away, even it was him initiating contact with me (my profile specifically stated I was chubby and had photos). At the end of the day, you HAVE to be sexually attracted to someone. She could be a perfect size 0 and you might not feel attraction. It's more than weight. It's more than personality. They need to be combined. Even then, a couple who are a perfect match on paper could not work out in real life.
The only thing that irked me was the above about the fingers. Do all fat girls have cold hands? Really? I'd say the extra padding makes them warm. The point isn't about the hands, it's about statements like that. Those sweeping statements make you sound like an asshole.
Appreciate that everyone is different. I can look at a ton of people and think they're attractive, but not be attracted to them. Shallowness is not being able to see this, and only believing that your 'type' is attractive.