Of course you're having the dreams because you constantly think about it, and this is very normal for someone who was molested. The thing that puzzles me is that you seem to be more concerned with the symptom rather than the cause. I think if you really explore the molestation, painful as it may be, you'll find a lot of answers. Hope this helps.
Yeah I get you, ever since I had my first flashback of it, at this point of my life I've gone through so much & so much worse that I have mixed feelings with it. A part of me feels like okay... Another thing to add to the list... But also makes sense on the way I acted during those days in my childhood; the other part of me feels confused, eager to know what happened & who did this... Guilty because what someone did to me, I did to someone else when I was a kid & always felt disgusted with myself.. also not knowing how to react because of not knowing what happened & who in my family did it. I don't know how to deal with it, especially since I haven't told my mom yet (waiting for right timing) lmao... I'm just a mess overall but I thank you for your input.
First of all, you're not a mess. I think you're articulate, introspective, and intelligent. You owe it to yourself to heal and thrive. I know you can, and I hope you do.
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Of course you're having the dreams because you constantly think about it, and this is very normal for someone who was molested. The thing that puzzles me is that you seem to be more concerned with the symptom rather than the cause. I think if you really explore the molestation, painful as it may be, you'll find a lot of answers. Hope this helps.
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Yeah I get you, ever since I had my first flashback of it, at this point of my life I've gone through so much & so much worse that I have mixed feelings with it. A part of me feels like okay... Another thing to add to the list... But also makes sense on the way I acted during those days in my childhood; the other part of me feels confused, eager to know what happened & who did this... Guilty because what someone did to me, I did to someone else when I was a kid & always felt disgusted with myself.. also not knowing how to react because of not knowing what happened & who in my family did it. I don't know how to deal with it, especially since I haven't told my mom yet (waiting for right timing) lmao... I'm just a mess overall but I thank you for your input.
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First of all, you're not a mess. I think you're articulate, introspective, and intelligent. You owe it to yourself to heal and thrive. I know you can, and I hope you do.