Is it normal to have a major crush on my band director

My band director is 23 years older then me ... He has told me in private that im his favorite student ... He's the music minister at my church and I'm the only student of his in the church orchestra and at his pool party for the orchestra this past summer he pick me up (I was in a string bikini) and threw me into the pool .. And then jumped in and swam with me .... And he's gave me supper long hugs ... And has nicknames for me like little rabbit

Is It Normal?
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  • It is normal for youth to look up to teachers or instructors that way, because you don't have the knowledge that comes with age. It is very wrong for teachers and authority figures to have these sort of flirty relationships with Kids. Do not think that he loves you. You are an object to him and he has the potential to ruin your life.

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  • Oh geez he's a pedo!

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  • Yeah, and potentially really creepy depending on your age

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  • This is going to end badly

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  • Ask the band director's superior what they think.

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  • More info? How old are you?

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