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I am a pretty normal and "type A" kind of guy except for my submissive high heel trample fetish. How can a guy who dabbles in MMA and alpine climbing like to be stepped on, kicked, tortured, used and abused under ultra high heeled shoes and boots? Does not make sense to me, but there is no "shoving it in the closet".
It is certainly a fetish.
My girlfriend has a friend that has this fetish. He will just text girls and ask if they will come over to step on him. He is serious, too. Short, tall, fat, skinny, black, white-- he does not care. As long as she will wear high heels and step all over him he is happy. Sometimes he pays the girls.
It's definitely not my fetish. I think it is weird. But to each their own. I am not judging. Go for it.
It's more common than you might think. The higher the heels...the better.
Who is to say what is normal. Sure as hell not me. I feel like you and many others. We like to have a normal hand holding sit and watch TV kind of life. But we also like to have the fun of being walked all over by high heel boots. And let someone come up and say "Your sick!" They are taking there life in there hands. But I what I don't understand is if we are such freaks then why do I keep seeing so much of this in TV, films, print Ad's, and even music videos? Is it that we are not as much of a freak as we think? I think the person who calls name is just in his or her closet. Or are others just trying to come out. If they are I sure wish it would happen faster. And just keep in mind that it was not that long ago that women wareing pants was odd to see. Or a man and woman in bed together on TV. Even on cutting edge shows like "All in the family". So maybe we are in this country starting to get it together. The Europeans have had a far more normal feeling about sex and what feels good, we just seem to being to try to get going. I hope so.
I have 'struggled' with this...and a female shoe/foot fetish all my life. I say struggle because of how the fetish is viewed by society at large; those of us who have this fetish are considered 'freaks' or 'perverts' and certainly not 'normal.' Yet, you never here of someone who likes women's breats referred to as a 'breast freak, or leg's as a 'leg freak'. But mention that you like feet....
Problem is the fetish can and does divide your sexual energy if you need to have feet and heels involved to become arosed for 'normal' relations with a woman.
The trick is to find a partner who is 'into it' and not just one who 'goes along with it.' Good luck there because I've never found one.
Cheers!