Well, I've had my moments where I would completely dislike the female gender. Similar to how you couldn't trust men, I couldn't trust women. I'm 18 as well and haven't had a girlfriend or even kissed one.
I think you're situation is mainly egocentric, you have to let go of your fears. I use to not trust women, but I let a couple into my life because I stopped caring. From my own experience I suggest just not caring about others and live your own life. Eventually people will enter your life and you won't have to fear them. Basically, if you let your fear go, then nothing will be holding you back. Intimacy can be scary but if you find the right person, everything will be fine.
Is it normal to have a "fear of intimacy"?
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Well, I've had my moments where I would completely dislike the female gender. Similar to how you couldn't trust men, I couldn't trust women. I'm 18 as well and haven't had a girlfriend or even kissed one.
I think you're situation is mainly egocentric, you have to let go of your fears. I use to not trust women, but I let a couple into my life because I stopped caring. From my own experience I suggest just not caring about others and live your own life. Eventually people will enter your life and you won't have to fear them. Basically, if you let your fear go, then nothing will be holding you back. Intimacy can be scary but if you find the right person, everything will be fine.