Is it normal to have a fantasy like this and if so how do i tell him?
A sexual fantasy of mine is for my boyfriend to wake me up one day by forcing me to give him a blowjob. After that I would like for him to dress me in black and red lingerie (not leather) with matching cat ears and a tail. I imagine him putting a collar on me and have me follow him around the house all day sucking his dick whenever and for however long he wants to. He would either hand feed me or have me eat from a cat dish (CLEAN!!). In no means would I ever want this to be a daily thing! It's just an idea/fantasy that I really want to try. If it didn't work out I would of course want to the option to stopping whenever I like.
The only problem is I have no idea on how to tell me boyfriend this without him thinking I'm a freak or that he could control me or force to do something sexual after I say no as a result of this.