Is it normal to have a family hater friend?

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Is it normal to have a friend that always make fun of you, says mean stuff about your family?
Because one time we were at a hanging out place and we had to leave but it didn't end yet so she got mad @ my parents! and if I tell her I don't like her, she'd be like "what the heck!!!!!" what should I do to make her less obnoxious?

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  • JR1284
    13 years ago | pl

    JUST MAKE OUT WITH HER, NO BIG DEAL REALLY..

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  • cathy22
    12 years ago | pl

    she's a, "friend"?, has she always treated you this way?

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  • [Old Memory]
    13 years ago | pl

    That you do not like this persons insults and criticisms of you and your family is perfectly normal. She is behaving badly.

    Put it on the line - tell her to stop trash-talking you and your family or the friendship is over.

    Do not - repeat: do not make her bad behaviour your responsibility to explain or change. Just describe the behaviour, and give her a choice.

    And if she doesn't change - follow through, politely eject her as a friend.

    If it comes to that, do not feel badly. You should not tolerate disrespect. Consider it a lesson in sticking up for yourself. And a lesson to your trash-talking "friend" in what friendship is about.

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