Is it normal to have a dad who is obsessed with you?

Is it normal to have a dad who is obsessed with you? I think not. He always tells me everything before my mum, and looks at me when he farts or burps or says something races because I'm against it, but he does it on purpose, and it makes me feel uncomfortable. Even when I ask my mum a question, he is the one who answers it and cuts my mum off. Because of this, I think my mum has found and interest in my sisters work because she thinks that I'm my dads girl and that means she must be my sisters girl. Further more, he always tries and stand next to me, or behind me like right behind me. I get really scared when it's just me and him in the house. One time, I had to watch TV in the same room as him when my mum and sister were away, and he sat right next to me, squishing me.its super uncomfortable. And he is always staring at me... ALWAYS!! It's so creepy. And even when he is talking to someone else he creeps a little peek at me.
WHAT SHOULD I DO!!!???

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Is your dad obsessed with you? 1
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Comments ( 13 )
  • RoseIsabella

    Are you sure he's not your stepfather? 😨

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    • IrishPotato

      Daddy please stop staring at me, I'm wearing nothing but my shirt and knickers!

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      • IrishPotato

        I read she's 13 and I have so many regrets.

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    • IrishPotato

      W O W

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      • RoseIsabella

        Yeah, it's the kind of thing that makes me so sick. My dad is like my best friend, and has never been anything, decent and wholesome. I can't imagine what it must be like to have that weird shit in your past. It's beyond sad, and I hope nothing bad happens to OP.

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  • Ellenna

    His behavior towards you does sound obsessive: how old are you?

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  • noid

    How long has he been acting like this?

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    • A-sharp

      Can a man hug his daughter ?...goodness !!

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      • Firsttaste

        I believe a Real Man and Father can hug his daughter, However it must be a father daughter hug, Not something that makes you feel uncomfortable. If you feel uncomfortable and nervous about the hug or the amount of hugs he gives you ask him to stop. No Man Has the Right to take advantage of any Female. Please be careful with the way he hugs you.

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  • RosaBella612

    Out of curiosity how close are your parents?
    Is it a loving relationship or do they barely talk

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  • Ummitsstillme

    I thought this was going to be about tiger parenting, but it turned out to be really creepy. Have you talked to your Mom about his odd behavior? If not her maybe a school counselor?

    I'm not sure if you have any legal recourse if he doesn't actually touch you innapropriately, but I would definitely avoid him the best you can and get out of the house as soon as you can (depending on your age) if you don't get any help.

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    • RoseIsabella

      I think I'd rather get shot than ever hurt a child!

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  • kelili

    Tell him that he makes you feel uncomfortable or talk to your mum about it. I wouldn't like to experience this. I'm so scared for you.

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