I am sorry to say that while I can understand your attraction to her as a soon-to-be young woman, your infatuation has to stop. If I was a 16 year old, I would be very creeped-out if I knew that family member of 39 years was attracted to me.
It is fine for you both to get along in a friendly way but you seem to like her in a 'different' way.
Stop looking at what she's up to on Facebook and leave her to grow up naturally.
It may be painful for you now, but in the long run you will be glad that you didn't let her dominate your thoughts.
She has her own life to live, and so do you!
Best wishes.
is it normal to have a crush on a teenage girl when im 39?
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I am sorry to say that while I can understand your attraction to her as a soon-to-be young woman, your infatuation has to stop. If I was a 16 year old, I would be very creeped-out if I knew that family member of 39 years was attracted to me.
It is fine for you both to get along in a friendly way but you seem to like her in a 'different' way.
Stop looking at what she's up to on Facebook and leave her to grow up naturally.
It may be painful for you now, but in the long run you will be glad that you didn't let her dominate your thoughts.
She has her own life to live, and so do you!
Best wishes.