You claim to not be obsessed, but if you've been crushing on someone for four years and can't let go then you may very well be obsessed especially if he's not into you, boo boo. Also if you can't stop talking bout ole boy to your friends to the point that your friends are becoming über annoyed then they have a right to say you're obsessed, regardless they have a right to their opinions even if you don't necessarily agree with said opinions.
Here's a test you can give yourself: if you're talking about this crush and a friend asks to change the subject can you drop it or do you get upset and all butt hurt, because he's all you can think about? Do thoughts of Mr. Ain't Never Gonna Be distract you to the point that you can't concentrate on anything else?
Believe it or not you'll feel a lot better if you can forget about him.
#1 I'm NOT obsessed.
My friends aren't annoyed, because I don't talk about him.
They DONT have the right to their opinions because if the OTHER so called "friends" make rumors and say I am in love with the guy and want his D. Thinking I like him sexually and shit it isn't right. Saying I pretend he is my pillow and fuck him when I'm asexual and don't do anything like that.
I don't know where you got half that shit up but you must have not read what I wrote.
I can focus on other things I only think of him when I'm at home and not busy with work. I bring up other things to my friend and they never tell me to drop the subject, they talk about their loves and crushes more have I ever in my life. I have been able to get over him for a period of months but it just comes back.
I am not in love, or obsessed I just have a reoccuring crush thank you very much.
Well at least she doesn't put up with peoples shit. She has a right to defend herself and doesn't need anyone to be commenting rude shit, about how nobody likes them. People can't control how they feel, and anyone who says otherwise is either lying or a robot.
Yes she definitely has that going for her. Just shit on people because you're emotional. Great. It must be working. It was just a fucking joke anyways.
Obvious your a shallow realistic person. Some people are emotional, if you cant be nice and understanding then please go fly a kite :) and just deal that some people are soft
I'm understanding of soft people. However I will not respect people that either purposely or for lack of comprehension use their own misunderstandings as a way of getting heated and irrational just to feel they're right.
It doesn't have to be tolerated. Still, I cannot control what you choose to delete in order to make yourself look better. So yes, I will go fly a kite.
I have an AMAZING personality. She wasn't asking simple questions she was infering to something that was totally not the case. I'm not up for your sarcasm and if you had to deal with bullying for 10 years of your life even as a young adult, judging, mocking, rumors, jokes, and etc then you'll be irritable too. Not saying that as an excuse but you don't know my personality and I rather not have someone else tell me what I feel as they are not in my head. I was blankly stating that, but I can easily tell that my language put off a misunderstanding.
Whatever you say, kid. You're not defensive at all.
The friends who make up lies about you and start rumors aren't your true friends. You might do well by yourself to phase the gossip girls out of your life.
No offense but, "I have been able to get over him for a period of months, but it just comes back", sounds a lot like a rash as far as your recurring crush goes. I dunno what to tell you except perhaps to throw away or at least pack away anything that reminds you of your reoccurring crush. Also whenever you have thoughts of this person distract yourself with something else. Also you can challenge your recurring thoughts about this person by thinking or saying to yourself (if you're alone), I'm not interested in so and so or I'm over him.
One final thing, maybe you can't shake this attraction because he's unavailable, and somewhere in your head you find unavailable people easy to crush on because you're afraid of getting close to anyone.
Maybe true. I just know I will NEVER love, date, marry or have sex with anyone. He is single and has been for a long time. I have crushes on people who are single or unknown of being single. I don't have anything that remind me of him, I just know I see him everyday or every other day.
IIN to have a crush on a guy for almost 4 years?
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You claim to not be obsessed, but if you've been crushing on someone for four years and can't let go then you may very well be obsessed especially if he's not into you, boo boo. Also if you can't stop talking bout ole boy to your friends to the point that your friends are becoming über annoyed then they have a right to say you're obsessed, regardless they have a right to their opinions even if you don't necessarily agree with said opinions.
Here's a test you can give yourself: if you're talking about this crush and a friend asks to change the subject can you drop it or do you get upset and all butt hurt, because he's all you can think about? Do thoughts of Mr. Ain't Never Gonna Be distract you to the point that you can't concentrate on anything else?
Believe it or not you'll feel a lot better if you can forget about him.
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#1 I'm NOT obsessed.
My friends aren't annoyed, because I don't talk about him.
They DONT have the right to their opinions because if the OTHER so called "friends" make rumors and say I am in love with the guy and want his D. Thinking I like him sexually and shit it isn't right. Saying I pretend he is my pillow and fuck him when I'm asexual and don't do anything like that.
I don't know where you got half that shit up but you must have not read what I wrote.
I can focus on other things I only think of him when I'm at home and not busy with work. I bring up other things to my friend and they never tell me to drop the subject, they talk about their loves and crushes more have I ever in my life. I have been able to get over him for a period of months but it just comes back.
I am not in love, or obsessed I just have a reoccuring crush thank you very much.
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She explained a hypothetical situation and asked you simple questions.
Pretty easy to see why nobody would be into that amazing personality you got going for you.
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Well at least she doesn't put up with peoples shit. She has a right to defend herself and doesn't need anyone to be commenting rude shit, about how nobody likes them. People can't control how they feel, and anyone who says otherwise is either lying or a robot.
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Yes she definitely has that going for her. Just shit on people because you're emotional. Great. It must be working. It was just a fucking joke anyways.
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Obvious your a shallow realistic person. Some people are emotional, if you cant be nice and understanding then please go fly a kite :) and just deal that some people are soft
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I'm understanding of soft people. However I will not respect people that either purposely or for lack of comprehension use their own misunderstandings as a way of getting heated and irrational just to feel they're right.
It doesn't have to be tolerated. Still, I cannot control what you choose to delete in order to make yourself look better. So yes, I will go fly a kite.
I have an AMAZING personality. She wasn't asking simple questions she was infering to something that was totally not the case. I'm not up for your sarcasm and if you had to deal with bullying for 10 years of your life even as a young adult, judging, mocking, rumors, jokes, and etc then you'll be irritable too. Not saying that as an excuse but you don't know my personality and I rather not have someone else tell me what I feel as they are not in my head. I was blankly stating that, but I can easily tell that my language put off a misunderstanding.
Whatever you say, kid. You're not defensive at all.
The friends who make up lies about you and start rumors aren't your true friends. You might do well by yourself to phase the gossip girls out of your life.
No offense but, "I have been able to get over him for a period of months, but it just comes back", sounds a lot like a rash as far as your recurring crush goes. I dunno what to tell you except perhaps to throw away or at least pack away anything that reminds you of your reoccurring crush. Also whenever you have thoughts of this person distract yourself with something else. Also you can challenge your recurring thoughts about this person by thinking or saying to yourself (if you're alone), I'm not interested in so and so or I'm over him.
One final thing, maybe you can't shake this attraction because he's unavailable, and somewhere in your head you find unavailable people easy to crush on because you're afraid of getting close to anyone.
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Maybe true. I just know I will NEVER love, date, marry or have sex with anyone. He is single and has been for a long time. I have crushes on people who are single or unknown of being single. I don't have anything that remind me of him, I just know I see him everyday or every other day.