I don't understand what upsets you about it: the age difference; that she's (you think) not being honest with the older man; that she's selling sex; that your parents don't know about it? Or what?
If you've told her (non judgementally) how you feel and she's ok with it, it's really none of your business, and you haven't answered my questions about what bothers you. If you're not prepared to examine your own attitudes about it, you have no right to judge her
I think it's ok for someone to worry about their sister's decisions, if they are asking other people is most likely that they want opinions /thoughts on how to help/advice her.
She's legally an adult but she's very young, she might make decisions she could regret. Being concerned is not necessarily messing with someone else's life. As long as, like Ellena says, you don't judge.
Have your sister told you she had doubts about this situation?
IIN to have 30 year age difference in a relationship?
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bcuz it's my sister!
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I don't understand what upsets you about it: the age difference; that she's (you think) not being honest with the older man; that she's selling sex; that your parents don't know about it? Or what?
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I feel like she's in a shady situation and it just doesn't feel good to me.
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If you've told her (non judgementally) how you feel and she's ok with it, it's really none of your business, and you haven't answered my questions about what bothers you. If you're not prepared to examine your own attitudes about it, you have no right to judge her
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I think it's ok for someone to worry about their sister's decisions, if they are asking other people is most likely that they want opinions /thoughts on how to help/advice her.
She's legally an adult but she's very young, she might make decisions she could regret. Being concerned is not necessarily messing with someone else's life. As long as, like Ellena says, you don't judge.
Have your sister told you she had doubts about this situation?