i have to agree... it sounds like you're really upset with HER choices, but that you're blaming him for taking up with her.
The problem here is that... she's not really doing anything wrong.
I know you don't LIKE what she's doing and that it hurts your feelings. Perhaps you feel that it means she never loved your father if she can find love in the arms of someone else. BUT finding love again is part of moving on.
And in all honesty, if it's shallow love like you suspect, it may just be that she's lonely without him.
But no matter how much you miss your father, it's wrong to assume she has to live the life of a nun from now on. Eventually you're going to have to accept that her life isn't over yet.
Is it normal to hate your moms boyfriend?
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i have to agree... it sounds like you're really upset with HER choices, but that you're blaming him for taking up with her.
The problem here is that... she's not really doing anything wrong.
I know you don't LIKE what she's doing and that it hurts your feelings. Perhaps you feel that it means she never loved your father if she can find love in the arms of someone else. BUT finding love again is part of moving on.
And in all honesty, if it's shallow love like you suspect, it may just be that she's lonely without him.
But no matter how much you miss your father, it's wrong to assume she has to live the life of a nun from now on. Eventually you're going to have to accept that her life isn't over yet.