Is it normal to hate your friend?

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Is it normal to hate a friend? i really can't stand her. i hate it when she tells me i am very insensitive and i don't care about her feelings. she always try to make herself look better like opposing my ideas and beliefs. she used to say something completely contradicting to what i'm saying like "i don't agree with that, its better to..." and keeps on telling me to stay away from this guy because i don't deserve him".. i don't need her advice, i know how to decide on my own. instead of supporting me in what i want do, she always disagree, and it really gets under my skin.

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  • [Old Memory]
    12 years ago | pl

    ok first of all, friends would never do those things to you but i do feel she is very jelous of you and tends to steal your thunder an awful lot, you sound like a great person, i feel your around her because your the caring kind, but you also not very open about your feelings, not so good with emotions eh? let your friend know that you care, i feel like your friend is the type to go on and on about constant problems she has in her life, but note that she feels close to you and only wants to open you up, i feel like you should talk with her and ask whats on her mind, she will have important things to say that you must hear.

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  • IDONTMIND
    11 years ago | pl

    yes it is normal if you put it that way... you don't need to be lectured by her.. just do things your way... people always have the feeling of wanting to be right and wronging (?) others to strengthen their sense of self.

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  • naddy
    12 years ago | pl

    punch her face....she sounds like a two- face....that meaner is so not ur friend kick her to the curve and move on

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  • --A
    12 years ago | pl

    i told her to tell you those stuff.
    watch your back. ;)

    -A xoxo

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  • ilurvemyfriends
    12 years ago | pl

    She's no friend. A friend will be there for you and cheer you up. A BEST FRIEND would always be with you and encourage you. That's what my bff always does. So that girl might now be a friend at all.

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  • kait_dona_who
    12 years ago | pl

    if you cant stand her then tell her u don't want to be her friend. it may hurt her at first but if she is acting the way she is then in time she may understand. sometimes the truth can hurt but in this case i think it is better in the long run because you should NOT have a miserable attitude toward your friends.

    On the other hand if you think you can somehow have a heart to hear with her and try to mend your friendship then more power to you!

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