I don't think it's normal that you're uncomfortable with it. I can't see any logical reason why it would be bad for him to smoke with other women.
That said, if he doesn't think it's reasonable for you to ask him not to smoke with other women he should tell you that instead of agreeing not to but then doing it anyway.
No, I have no issue with people who smoke pot. It just makes me uncomfortable. Because I do not get along well with other girls to begin with. Yes that's what he says too, that its illogical. And I know it is, but I'm not comfortable with the way he looks at another girl, his body language, and the way he talks to them. I feel as if he is flirting and it makes me feel VERY insecure...uncomfortable.
This is your problem, not your boyfriend's. You shouldn't place restrictions on his social life because you are insecure. You need to learn to get along with other women and stop seeing them all as competition. If your boyfriend isn't trustworthy, it isn't the fault of other women - it's your boyfriend's fault. Honestly, you need to get this under control now because if you plan on spending your entire life trying to keep your men from so much as glancing at other women, you are in for a long and exhausting trip.
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I don't think it's normal that you're uncomfortable with it. I can't see any logical reason why it would be bad for him to smoke with other women.
That said, if he doesn't think it's reasonable for you to ask him not to smoke with other women he should tell you that instead of agreeing not to but then doing it anyway.
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No, I have no issue with people who smoke pot. It just makes me uncomfortable. Because I do not get along well with other girls to begin with. Yes that's what he says too, that its illogical. And I know it is, but I'm not comfortable with the way he looks at another girl, his body language, and the way he talks to them. I feel as if he is flirting and it makes me feel VERY insecure...uncomfortable.
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This is your problem, not your boyfriend's. You shouldn't place restrictions on his social life because you are insecure. You need to learn to get along with other women and stop seeing them all as competition. If your boyfriend isn't trustworthy, it isn't the fault of other women - it's your boyfriend's fault. Honestly, you need to get this under control now because if you plan on spending your entire life trying to keep your men from so much as glancing at other women, you are in for a long and exhausting trip.