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I really love my boyfriend but he wants to have sex after weve been toghether for awile and i dont have the guts to tell him that hes not going to like what he sees.
He picked you. He wants to be with you and like to have sex. He either A: likes you and your looks enough that he wants to do this, or B: doesnt care about your looks. Calm down, and definately dont break up over it.
If he wants to have sex with you, your probably attractive. Don't think about it too much, just let it happen and it will go well. Everyone gets nervous but to break up over something like that seems silly. Are you just going to break up with every guy you date because he wants to have sex? Lol. I think you will be a lonely uptight person. BUT, if thats your choice then that is good for you.
He will not care at all. Trust me. Have sex if you want to have sex. For all you know he hates his body too. But trust me, when you have sex, their body is the last thing on your mind. Boobs and bum, that's all he'll be thinking mate.
My girlfriend and I are about to start having sex and I think she's having the same problem, but if he wants to do it, then I guarantee he finds you attractive, and it's probably a good idea to discuss this with him so that he can put your thoughts to rest.
dont get caught up on the stupid shit like that. just maybe at first do it wirh the lights out.
Even with clothes on he will figure out your body shape or imagine what you would look like. He obviously likes you for who you are and how you look. Don't think much about it.
I'm the same way.. but after 3 years.. He still loves me. It's not about your looks.. He chose you for you. Have fun and let your fears go.
youre a fool who needs to sort out your own self doubt and low self esteem, you are most probably very attractive to your bf hence him being with you. Stop being silly and making his life worse because u feel shit about yourself. talk to him and tell him your issue, if he does love you/care for you he will reassure you and make you feel better. also get some form of counseling for this negative outlook you have on yourself.