Is it normal to hate your best friend's other best friends?

I have this best friend that I feel I am beggining to lose in a way. There are these other two girls that claim her as their best friend now too. It just bothers me how they claimed that when they dont even know as much about her as I do. I dont like those two girls. I get annoyed when i see them, but i dont show it. I know this sounds immature. Would this be normal?

Is It Normal?
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  • Be careful of how you approach this situation.. I am currently in a similar situation in which my long time best friend is getting super possesive and jealous of one my new friends.. I will always care for my friend but it has caused a lot of tension and akwardness between us and all of his jealous behaviors have only pushed me and my new friend closer.

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  • That happens to me too! I thought I was insecure and it was totally abnormal but I guess not. My friend-let's call her Megan-always talks about her other best friend-let's call her Alyssa-and she's always like "Alyssa blah blah blah we had so much fun blah blah blah!" it was okay the first few times but now its just annoying. I'm so sorry! I've gone off track. My advice to you is to hang out with other friends for a while or try and befriend the other girls so you can have something like a clique! That sounds fun!

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  • The same thing happens to me.
    It's perfectly normal just remember that your friend will always be there for
    You

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  • Why don't you hang out with some of your other friends for a while? It sounds like you are becoming posessive of your friend and in truth this may push her away.

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  • Yes you are protective of a person you don't just see as a friend but a like family member. You mainly don't want her hurt.

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