Is it normal to hate your best friend because he is exactly like you?

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I have a problem. I HATE the one kid I have every thing in common with. I can't stand being similar 2 someone. I always believed that everyone was different and now I go insane over him being like my exact copy. Every time I even hear his voice, I just feel like I want to beat him up. We work at the same place have the same hobbies and enjoy the same things. Also I can not stand that his voice even sounds like mine. GOD I hate him. Once again am I normal????

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  • ~L~
    13 years ago | pl

    You should be happy you have so much in common. Stop being so mad about it and realise that you're lucky to have found a friend like him.

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  • House
    13 years ago | pl

    maybe you hate yourself!I would love to have a friend that's just like me....i could talk to someone who shares my interests.

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  • phillostopher
    13 years ago | pl

    I'm a twin, and my brother is just like me in almost every way. Its funny you have this problem because me and my brother went about 5 years trying to seperate ourselves from each other. We use to dress the same all the way through middle school and one day we just noticed we were too much alike. but, something happened, people started letting us down right and left. As you get older people start to mature and all you have left are those people who enjoy doing the same things or similar things that you enjoy. We now enjoy being the same and embrace it and try to do the same things because someone who is like you is hard to come by in life. It makes having my features that make me me more bearable at times because I know there is someone else out there who is just like me going through the same or similar problems.

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  • Sobored
    10 years ago | pl

    I wish I could meet someone just like me!! Well at least someone who likes the same things that I like. (usually the things you don't like in others are really the things you don't like in yourself, ......so I've heard....idk) I could understand how annoying he would be if he was trying to copy you, but if that's just how he is then it doesn't seem that bad.

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  • SassyFrassyLassie_old
    13 years ago | pl

    If he's exactly the same as you and you hate him for it, maybe it's really yourself that you loath. Just a thought.

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  • [Old Memory]
    13 years ago | pl

    hmmm probably yeah your upset because you feel he has the exact same of everything as you and that your not the only one of you
    i kinda have a friend thats like that but i like him because the shit i do you just want someone to do it with you and i aint meaning normal shiz i mean like shit we arent supposed to do lol :D embrace him other wise you will be seen as someone really whinney and he willl be seen as someone thats not which will probably piss you off more

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