Is it normal to hate you ex if...

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  • yea, its normal i guess but not good. this is from the girls view you explained in your story. i broke up with my bf after being engaged and he wanted me so bad. we was always on and off. and i had known this one boy and when i met the other guy i was just smitten. he made me feel special and everything and i had feelings that i hadnt felt snce i first fell in lov with the guy i was with befor. he wanted to get back with me so bad and i kinda led him on. but however i wanted us to remain okayy. his mom however had to get involved and then my sister started all this drama it was a nasty break up. anyways. he called me and cussed me out and caled me all thses bad names when all hell broke loose. and now we never talk ever. i am very happy with my current boyfriend i was with befor. however sometimes its hard to go places that was like "our" place like chinesse and stuff. and he bought me this rabbit and elephant stuff i still keep. our break u was rlly ruff. at times i miss him. but he wasnt happy with me. i could look in his eyes and just see his hatred to me. and it was like when i looked in the new boys eyes i felt comfortable. maybe i was vulnerable, who knows. but i couldnt be happier now. i wish he didnt have these feelings owards me cause it does hurt to have someone in your life for 2 years and then they just go away and not even a decent goodbye. its a tuff thing. but if he really loved me then he would understand he made me leave. he didnt look at me with the eyes i feel in love with 2 years ago. and i wanted to feel loved. by one glance and he didnt bring that to the table anymore. i wish we could of remained friends cause i do love him, but i no longer love him with the passion i had befor, dont treat your exs bad, cause it does hurt them. josh dosent know that it hurt me when he said those awfull things, and it still hurts i dont get a "im sorry" back, still i have no bad words to say, we fought a lot but we loved hard. maybe things could of been different. but then where would i be? still miserable. he was a great boyfriend and fiance and he showed me how to love. but he had to set me free and allow me to explore it further.

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